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What the hecks wrong with me!?!?!?!?!?

Posted by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 4:19 AM
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So me and my ex have been divorced for 5 years this August. However I can NOT stop thinking about him. I think I'm still in love with him... Yeah, I said it. I don't know what to do about it either!! The reason we aren't together is because I left him for someone else and now this someone else is a major dick head! It's like I wanna write to my ex and tell him how i feel but i'm not sure if that's such a good thing. However, we do talk every once in a while and I know that he's not with anyone.. ARGH!! I'm so freaking confused and my family isn't helping me out one bit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  

Posted by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 4:19 AM
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sati769leigh
by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 4:23 AM

Maybe instead of coming right out and telling him how you feel, you should get to know him for who he is NOW.talk to him, become friends again. express your apology to him for your mistakes and the pain you caused him and yourself. and just see where things go. wish you luck momma

nemiller
by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 4:29 AM

are you still with the person you left him for?  you need to make a final decision to end that relationship before making any other choices.  if you can't or don't want to, then wait until you're sure one way or the other.  then, just reconnect with your ex.  5 years is a long time and he might have changed.  so your best bet is to take it slow and get to know him again.  if your relationship moves that direction again, then so be it.

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