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Do people really get that upset when their pregnant and one of their friends tells them they think they also might be pregnant??

Posted by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 7:56 PM
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 I really don't understand this. Theres always posts where pregnant women are complaining about how their friend says they think they might be pregnant and they are all upset about it calling them a liar.

When I was pregnant with DS my friend Cari purposelygot pregnant and I LOVED it. We were only a month apart so we got to go through it together. My friend Brooke wasn't that far along, she got pregnant 3 months before DS was born, and then my sister was also pregnant when I was. Our DS's are 2 months apart. I loved having 2 people that were so close to me to share the experience with especially since DS was unplanned and I had no idea what was going to happen.

Now with DD I have no one that is pregnant with me and it kinda sucks. My sister just found out that shes pregnant with her 4th baby but she is only 6 weeks so its not really the same. I wish she was closer so I had some one who was close to my due date.

Is it just jealousy because they aren't the only pregnant one or what?? What if their friend thought it would be nice to have kids that were close together like my friend Cari so they could play together and be best friends?

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Posted by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 7:56 PM
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JakobsMommy127
by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:03 PM

When i got pregnant with my first there were 2 other friends and i loved it cause we always talked about how different our pregnancies were. same happened when i got pregnant with my second. Not only were there two friends on each i had 2-4 cousins pregnant same time as my pregnancies too. I thought it was neato

nomadbrat83
by Platinum Member on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:05 PM

My twin sister is due 3.5 weeks before me, one of my friends is due 1.5 weeks before me, one of my best friends is due 6 weeks after me and another will find out next week if she is pregnant and I couldn't be happier.  I think its great.

poshkat
by Platinum Member on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:09 PM

i was upset when my sister got pregnant when i was 6 months along. but theres a whole back story to that

MiSs.SmOkEy
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:09 PM

 Thats cool how you and your twin are pregnant at the same time!!

Quoting nomadbrat83:

My twin sister is due 3.5 weeks before me, one of my friends is due 1.5 weeks before me, one of my best friends is due 6 weeks after me and another will find out next week if she is pregnant and I couldn't be happier.  I think its great.

 

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mommyofderek
by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:11 PM

 Their friend is stealing all their glory dont you know. That is why they get all mad... it's especially worse when their family members get pregnant.

nomadbrat83
by Platinum Member on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:24 PM

 Yeah it'a very cool.  It's her first and my second.  She miscarried a year ago so I am so glad that things are going well with this pregnancy (she will be 17 weeks on Tuesday).

Quoting MiSs.SmOkEy:

 Thats cool how you and your twin are pregnant at the same time!!

Quoting nomadbrat83:

My twin sister is due 3.5 weeks before me, one of my friends is due 1.5 weeks before me, one of my best friends is due 6 weeks after me and another will find out next week if she is pregnant and I couldn't be happier.  I think its great.

 

 

 Devoted Navy wife to Joe, mommy to Isabel, & expecting #2!




YoRkIeMaMa2009
by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:38 PM

LOL> I was gonna say you gals should have photos taken together of you and your bellies. It would be neat

Quoting MiSs.SmOkEy:

 Thats cool how you and your twin are pregnant at the same time!!

Quoting nomadbrat83:

My twin sister is due 3.5 weeks before me, one of my friends is due 1.5 weeks before me, one of my best friends is due 6 weeks after me and another will find out next week if she is pregnant and I couldn't be happier.  I think its great.

 


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lovemymarine306
by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:39 PM

i found out that i was pregnant (a surprise) with baby #2 when my younger sister was about 3 months pregnant with her first baby.  she stopped talking to me for about 6 months.

                                  

babybull0601
by on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:43 PM

We joke about how if anyone has a baby shower someone at the shower will get pregnant within the year. It has never failed.

Emmas_Mommy06
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2010 at 8:45 PM

When I got pregnant with my DD, both of my older sisters and best friend were pregnant shortly after. I thought it was fun to be pregnant together.

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