When I got pregnant with my now 3 year old little girl it was the best thing ever. :) My ex and I were going through a very rough patch in our relationship when I got pregnant. We separated for a short bit..and I mean a very short bit...maybe a week...well I had sex with someone else then we got back together and did the deed as well. Go ahead, I can take it, I am sure I will be called names but I know I am in the wrong big time. I was not sure if he ( my ex) was her father from the second I got pregnant to this very day. He also had doubts in his mind that he was not the father either. He would occasionally bring it up every now and again and randomly say something to the extent of "i think she isnt mine". But he loved her and took her as her own and even signed the certificate. But now things came to a head and I told him..that I was unsure if he was the father. :( I was a big girl and owned up and I feel terrible. he loves her so much and I know this is all my fault. I feel like poo as I should cause karma came to get me. "There is already papers for a test.
thank you for listening ladies
At least you told him finally and can get it resolved. If he isnt her bio father at least he has been a father heart wise.
Thanks ladies...definitly a lesson learned. *sigh* I have so much guilt on me now.. but cant undo what I did.
Quoting frndlyfn:At least you told him finally and can get it resolved. If he isnt her bio father at least he has been a father heart wise.
Yes so true.
Quoting TJ89:Its a good thing you came clean!!! i hope the best for ya'll
me too! thank you!
And what happens if the test comes back as her not being his?
We're all human and all make mistakes. The important thing is you realize it was "wrong" and learned from it. As far as the dad thing, Im glad you came clean. If he isnt the father the bio father has a right to know he has a baby! Hope all works out for the best!
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on Apr. 9, 2010 at 6:49 PM