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STFU or do something about it!!!

Posted by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:35 AM
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 My dh is starting to piss me off. I understand that his job is stressful and I do try to listen but as of today I am done. He hates his boss. Great who doesn't? But he has a chance to get the hell outta there and go to a different position in the prison. It is longer hours (but he works 10 hours now when it should be 8 so what is 2 more hours)? He says he wants to spend time with us but he comes home at 5:30 and turns on the tv and sits there while I get them ready for bed and such. Then he goes to play WoW. Yea real family time there. He also gets 8 more hours. So instead of working 5 days 40 hours at crappy pay he can work 4 days on, four days off 48 hours and a 200 pay increase because they joint is too cheap to pay time and a half for the 12 hour people so they reached this compromise. HE DOES NOT WANT TO SWITCH RIGHT NOW!! But I get to listen to him bitch about

1. not enough money but I am not allowed to work

2. how is boss is a jerk, lazy, etc

3. No money to spend where ever he wants.




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by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:39 AM

How frustrating for you.  Maybe you can talk to him the next time he starts venting to you.  And if he says the 3 things you listed, then remind him that the other position would pay more money, essentially give you more time off (even though he'll be working more hours in a day...he'll have 4 days off!) and he'd have more spending money.  I don't know if the boss changes if he changes position, but if it does you could remind him of that too. 

I'm sorry you're having to deal with it.  I hate it when people complain repeatedly about something when they have the power to change it. 

--Nicole--
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:41 AM

Well tell him if he is soooo broke that the $15 every month that it costs to play WoW can give him some extra spending money lol





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