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My little sister is planning on raising her baby to hate!!

Posted by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:32 PM
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My sister is like 15 weeks pregnant and instead of making plans to raise her baby as a functioning, respectable person, she wants to raise it to hate. She is dating a guy that is very, very prejudiced. And they think it's funny that they are going to point at black people and say "bad" and "yucky" when their baby is with them. Same for gay people. I am nothing like this and trying to teach my kids to be respectful to EVERYONE NOT JUST PEOPLE LIKE THEM. Her boyfriend even made a comment about a youtube video that had a cute little black baby making faces and said "kid should've been aborted, little mini-n***er". I was appalled. I don't want them around my kids if that's what they want to joke about. Shouldn't we be way, way past this crap by now? Ugh.

Posted by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:32 PM
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briansmommy7143
by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:33 PM

Ignorant and uneducated is my guess. Sad....

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kiernansmom08
by Bree Tanner on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:35 PM

UGH - if my sister was like that, I would write her off.  I don't deal with people like that, family or no.

bananahammock1
by Turd Ferguson on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:35 PM

 Its sad but it happens everyday w/ every race! It isnt only one race that does this.. The sad thing is.. Kids only know what they're taught. The hate has to come from somewhere! Someone has to break the cycle!!

OnAWickedNight
by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:36 PM

eye rolling No matter how stupid it may seem , its their kid and they can do that. If you dont want your kids to pick up on it I suggest you keep them away. And no I am not sayin what they are doing is a good thing...its just youre not that childs parent so you cant say what they can teach it and what they cant.

Tryin2Concieve
by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:36 PM
I Can't Stand Ppl Like That...They Live In The Past. They Need To Get Used To All The Different Races...Cause We Aint Goin Nowhere lol. I'm Not Black But Hubby Is. I'm Hispanic.
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Mom2theboy1994
by Gold Member on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:37 PM

Gross.

And the child will be the one to pay the price.

Idiot parents should be sterilized.

mommymandaleigh
by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:38 PM

I think it is sick and I feel very sorry for the children growing up like that. I always think when I hear someone say something really racist, if they are trying to compensate for something in their life that is lacking. I would keep my children and myself away from them. No good can come from being around people like that !!!

Tryin2Concieve
by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:38 PM
Just wow...u must thinl like them then. Eh.


Quoting OnAWickedNight:

eye rolling No matter how stupid it may seem , its their kid and they can do that. If you dont want your kids to pick up on it I suggest you keep them away. And no I am not sayin what they are doing is a good thing...its just youre not that childs parent so you cant say what they can teach it and what they cant.


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OneToughMami
by Bronze Member on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:38 PM

Your sister should be punched in the face. She's an idiot, nothing more and nothing less.

sillytime
by on Jun. 11, 2010 at 4:38 PM

 Sorry but your lil sis sounds like ignorant trash.

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