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Posted by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 3:55 PM
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How can all you women who say your husband doesn't ever fantasize or look at porn or do any of that stuff guarantee that he doesn't. You have no idea what goes on in his head. Even if he says he doesn't, how do you know he just isn't saying it so he doesnt have to hear you. And why does it bother you if he does? I am not trying to bash, just a question. But if you want to B*tch. Feel free. I just find women like this funny.

I love my Hubby and I am so proud!

by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 3:55 PM
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sherriemorgan
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 3:56 PM

BUMP!

Mamie_85
by Ruby Member on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:00 PM

he used to have a major problem with it, starting way back in school. he got kicked out of a computer class for viewing porn in class. it was a major hurdle in our relationship, but i know he doesn't do it any more..alone..lol it's become something we do occasionally together and it seems to satisfy that urge for him. it's all about compromise in my opinion.

DanaG70
by Platinum Member on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:01 PM

 Doesn't bother me, but here's a bump.=)

pyrateprincess
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:04 PM

I know because he doesn't like it because he doesn't like it whenwhen i watch porn without him. lol Not that i'm a big porn person..the only time i ever watch it is with him. we don't even masterbate without eachother. lol I'm not big on that either so it doesn't really bother me.


massteria
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:04 PM

Well, I can't say mine never does...but I do know that his desire to look at it is almost non existant lol.  We lead a very alternative lifestyle and I will tell you what he told me when I asked him about it.

"Why the hell would I need to look at pussy on a video or the computer when I have more of it than I can handle?  Why look when I can call someone up and get some for real?"

sherriemorgan
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:07 PM


Quoting Mamie_85:

he used to have a major problem with it, starting way back in school. he got kicked out of a computer class for viewing porn in class. it was a major hurdle in our relationship, but i know he doesn't do it any more..alone..lol it's become something we do occasionally together and it seems to satisfy that urge for him. it's all about compromise in my opinion.


see I understand the men who actually let it cause problems.( women not letting them watch it, when it causes problems) but at least you are smart enough to compromise.

I love my Hubby and I am so proud!

babygirlsmom314
by Corinne on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:09 PM

 I know for a fact that my husband doesn't watch porn.  I have no idea if he fantasize and if he did I wouldn't care.  But it would be nice if he would share so we might be able to act things out. 




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sherriemorgan
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:17 PM

Me and my hubby communicate openly. I know he looks at porn and I look at porn, we masturbate separately and we fantasize when we want, we feel completely comfortable with each other.

Mommie2Kailen
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:20 PM

my man looks at it with and without me. i do too. No problem here, but I understand what your saying. If we trust 100% what our men say and they say they don't look at it then, we believe them.

Mandymb
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 4:22 PM

 LOL, i agree. Woman who really think there husbands never to that are very naive. Everyone does it even woman, its human nature.

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