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dh refuses to tell me when hes coming home

Posted by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:22 PM
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I'm so irritated - dh is a trucker so he'll be gone from 2-10 days at a time. His new bs is he refuses to tell me when he's coming back. He'll just show up, scare the crap out of me and screw my schedule all up.
It started when he thought I was having sex with someone - I don't know who because I know no one in my town.
I just had a baby so obviously not partying or doing anything - and he's pulling this bs again - I'm so pissed, I just want to know what's going on.

I guess its a power/control thing - because I want something he is going to refuse to give it to me. I really hate him.
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gulfcoastmom4
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:24 PM

So he thinks you're cheating and you hate him?

And you guys had another child, why??

snugglesaurus
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:24 PM

I'm sorry :(

That really sucks. :((
Sorry, I have no advice. No clue how to handle that. But good luck<33

oporb
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:24 PM
Oh - I only mention partying and such because Its like he's trying to catch me doing something. I have 4 kids and no friends wtf would I be doing
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toadysmommy09
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:25 PM

 ...what a marriage you're in..

 

luv_my_xiya
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:25 PM

what does it matter if he just shows up? how is your husband coming home ruining your plans?

Brianav
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:26 PM


Quoting toadysmommy09:

 ...what a marriage you're in..


 

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dsptchmommy
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:26 PM
Kinda what I was thinking. If that's really whats going on then get out now before one of you is sitting in jail like my dh is.
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lilmisfit
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:26 PM

Just throwing this out there....maybe he is so paranoid of you cheating on him cause he's cheating on you when he's out on the road....just an idea

snugglesaurus
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:27 PM

I get it> It sounds frustrating. It's no fun being accused of something like that and I would be really irritated at my husband if he was constantly trying to 'catch me in the act' of something I wasn't even thinking of doing D:`

Quoting oporb:

Oh - I only mention partying and such because Its like he's trying to catch me doing something. I have 4 kids and no friends wtf would I be doing



SnoBuny
by Platinum Member on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:27 PM

 

Quoting gulfcoastmom4:

So he thinks you're cheating and you hate him?

And you guys had another child, why??

 

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