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Scorned Women?

Posted by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:25 PM
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I made a post earlier about an incident that happened with DH last night when he went out with the guys from his unit (kind of a "going away" thing for one of the guys).

Anyway, long story short: a chick from DH's unit came on to him (this chick is known for trying to break up marriages). DH shoots her down and tells her he's happily married and has a baby. She gets mad and slaps him. He came home and told me what happened. Today, this chick calls and says my DH slept with her. Told DH about it when he got home and he called his CoC to report her and to have this stuff on record.

Anyway, most of the women in that post were supportive and understood why I trusted my DH. He has never given me a reason to doubt him in the 7 years we've been together.

There were a few in there that stated that I shouldn't be so quick to believe him and that he is sleeping with her.

Are there really that many scorned women on this site that think that all men only think with their penis and can't resist temptation?

Personally, I think it's sad and says a lot that they can't trust their spouse or SO enough that some of them have to sleep with them before the guy goes out with his friends for the night so he wont be tempted to get a quick lay.

I can link my other post if you ladies would like to read through the replies or get a better understanding of what I mean.

Anyway, what are your thoughts? Are there really that many women who are scorned?

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Mommy to Jeffrey (10/14/2009) baby boy

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by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:25 PM
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jillbailey26
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:29 PM

I'm with you. 

I would say, in your situation, it's easier to trust your husband than a woman that's KNOWN for trying to break up marriages. 


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19


mysticalmalissa
by Ruby Member on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:33 PM

 Its the paranoid, insecure ones that feel that way.

I have a friend that if her husbands phone rings and he doesnt answer it, she automatically thinks its a chick calling and will grab his phone and call the number back. It always ends up being some guy hunting for car parts.. LMAO

He stops answering work related calls after a certain time in the evening and she swears up and down its women calling him.

When she does this while I'm at her house I totally crack up. I truly feel bad for her husband.

I am your average everyday, former upstate NY'er, now living in TN....Harley riding ,crazy,pro-porn,strip club,Hooters for husbands type of wife and older mom of 3 boys.


                      
                      BE YOURSELF, EVERYONE ELSE IS TAKEN =)

lcappytan05
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:37 PM

Wow. That is pretty crazy!

Quoting mysticalmalissa:

 Its the paranoid, insecure ones that feel that way.

I have a friend that if her husbands phone rings and he doesnt answer it, she automatically thinks its a chick calling and will grab his phone and call the number back. It always ends up being some guy hunting for car parts.. LMAO

He stops answering work related calls after a certain time in the evening and she swears up and down its women calling him.

When she does this while I'm at her house I totally crack up. I truly feel bad for her husband.


Army wife to Chad (12/28/2007) army

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leslieOli
by Bronze Member on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:38 PM

Stay strong, your DH sounds like a very responsible man, and it seems there is a lot of trust there. Just ignore these sad women, they have nothing better to do than to bring you down to their level. Keep your chin up and smile....you have a great husband

snugglesaurus
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:39 PM

I admit that I am not so quick to believe my husband. He is famous for lying straight to my face even when he is caught red-handed. So maybe I am jaded, but I would never just take his word for anything anymore.

I wouldn't tell another woman not to trust her husband though. If you can trust your husband, that is great; I don't think a lot of people have that (or maybe they do, but I don't so I'm jealous lol). And you know your husband better then anyone, so you would know better than anybody else.


mysticalmalissa
by Ruby Member on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:40 PM

 Its a daily thing for him to put up with because she is crazy jealous.  I know I would go bonkers if my  husband was that way with me. But her husband somehow keeps his cool and just smiles at her LOL

Quoting lcappytan05:

Wow. That is pretty crazy!

Quoting mysticalmalissa:

 Its the paranoid, insecure ones that feel that way.

I have a friend that if her husbands phone rings and he doesnt answer it, she automatically thinks its a chick calling and will grab his phone and call the number back. It always ends up being some guy hunting for car parts.. LMAO

He stops answering work related calls after a certain time in the evening and she swears up and down its women calling him.

When she does this while I'm at her house I totally crack up. I truly feel bad for her husband.


 

I am your average everyday, former upstate NY'er, now living in TN....Harley riding ,crazy,pro-porn,strip club,Hooters for husbands type of wife and older mom of 3 boys.


                      
                      BE YOURSELF, EVERYONE ELSE IS TAKEN =)

snugglesaurus
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:41 PM

Wow, that is really overkill.

Quoting mysticalmalissa:

 Its a daily thing for him to put up with because she is crazy jealous.  I know I would go bonkers if my  husband was that way with me. But her husband somehow keeps his cool and just smiles at her LOL

Quoting lcappytan05:

Wow. That is pretty crazy!

Quoting mysticalmalissa:

 Its the paranoid, insecure ones that feel that way.

I have a friend that if her husbands phone rings and he doesnt answer it, she automatically thinks its a chick calling and will grab his phone and call the number back. It always ends up being some guy hunting for car parts.. LMAO

He stops answering work related calls after a certain time in the evening and she swears up and down its women calling him.

When she does this while I'm at her house I totally crack up. I truly feel bad for her husband.


 



kylismomma
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:41 PM

Not me! But then again, no one has ever cheated on me. I fully trust my husband, like yours he has given me no reason not to trust him. :)

NickiNavarro
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:41 PM

If I got a random call from a chick saying she slept with my husband, I would know she was full of crap. Not all men are cheaters, I know my husband, and have known him for 8 years. I'm not saying he would NEVER cheat on me, because who knows where we will be in 5 years, 10 years whatever, but I do know right now and for the past 8 years, my husband would not do it. I also believe if our marriage was at the point where that would be a concern, we would be in counseling. You are not alone in trusting your husband, some of us just picked good ones. :)

WhitleyLyles
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 1:41 PM

I agree with you. There are so many women that have been cheated on and just decide to lump al men in that category.. I am married to a great one who I completely trust to never cheat on me. And in your situation- the girl is known for crap like that.. I would believe him too.

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