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I could live without sex

Posted by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:49 PM
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After having kids I have completely lost my sex drive. It's caused a HUGE problem in my marriage. I don't know how to fix this problem. Anyone gone through this and have any advice?
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by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:49 PM
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lovinmom2
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:52 PM

I am going through this now, so you are not alone, sorry no advice but here is a bump:)

mommy2cristian
by Gold Member on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:52 PM

 Unfortunately no.  Or is it fortunately? lol.  I could live without it too but it's DB who's taken away my drive!  Are you having issues with him?  Does he do anything to help out like romantic stuff?

aangel414
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:53 PM

I wish I could help also but........ I have NO sex drive either!  My DH thinks I am cheating on him but I swear I'm not! I just don't want it!!! Sorry No advice but here is a bump too!

luvmyguys
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:55 PM
No he is not romantic at ALL

Quoting mommy2cristian:

 Unfortunately no.  Or is it fortunately? lol.  I could live without it too but it's DB who's taken away my drive!  Are you having issues with him?  Does he do anything to help out like romantic stuff?

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luvmyguys
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:56 PM
Thanks ladies..it's nice to know I'm not alone on this
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MLozano
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:56 PM

i went through this for a very long time.  my daughter is 2 now and now it is just coming back.  i think for me it was being exhausted with two little ones because i have a 4 and 2 year old.  i don't know how you should go about it because for me it's like it all of a sudden came back.  but it took about 2 years after my last baby.  don't worry you are definitely not alone, i just don't have an exact answer for you.

TinaGhoulina
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 10:57 PM

Become a chronic masterbator? 

Seriously though, if you take time to fuck yourself and get yourself in the mood, I think the rest will come back naturally. 

Honestly though, I have no clue, I've always loved sex.

eema.gray
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 11:01 PM

hormone issues.  Get your doctor to test you.  You need to have some testosterone and if you get too low, it can kill your sex drive.

zachsmom19
by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 11:01 PM
no sex drive here i hateit because mine want to but my body does not want it
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heatherhall29
by Gold Member on Jun. 26, 2010 at 11:03 PM

If my husband even looked at me it was like I got pregnant.......so after  my second child I had my tubes tied and I have no sex drive maybe once a month my poor husband :(

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