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Totally stuck my foot in my mouth :o(

Posted by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 9:57 PM
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 A friend of mine is now 4 months pregnant with baby #2. She's the type that works out all the time, counts calories, obsesses over not being fat, etc. Well she posted some baby 'bump' pics today on FB. I SWEAR you can't even see the bump. Her stomach is flat as all get out. Well a few of her friends commented and said 'Your disgustingly skinny', 'where's the bump' and so on. I said "Oh 'M' you are extra blessed. I would have killed to look like that w/ baby." Well right after I posted my comment she erased the pictures? I thought my comment was nice. Like paying her a compliment. I pm'd her and told her I hope I didn't offend. I told her I was trying to give her props for staying so disciplined and fit during pregnancy. (Shoot at all times). I think the most she sees during pregnancy is 130 TOPS. Well she won't respond to me and now I feel bad. Was that offensive ?

by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 9:57 PM
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FL2AK
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 9:58 PM

Not offensive at all.  She has issues.

Vandyswife
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:00 PM

 no, it was probably the OTHER peoples comments.

.JeremiahsWife.
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:00 PM

 I've noticed anytime anyone ever tells her how great she looks she gets upset ? I don't get it. She looks like she could be on the front page of Shape Magazine. It's weird.

Quoting FL2AK:

Not offensive at all.  She has issues.

 

SavageMom86
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:00 PM
Maybe she deleted it because of the other comments
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krise
by Platinum Member on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:01 PM

 

Quoting Vandyswife:

 no, it was probably the OTHER peoples comments.

 

heathersbunch
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:02 PM

Hormonal is what I say !!!!!!!

SebbiesMommy
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:07 PM

maybe it wasn't your comment that made her delete the pics, but everyone elses :)

.JeremiahsWife.
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:10 PM

 Y'all are probably right. I just felt like maybe I had something to do with it since she didn't respond. *Shrug*

Quoting SebbiesMommy:

maybe it wasn't your comment that made her delete the pics, but everyone elses :)

 

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