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Don't u love a friend that !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:29 PM
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I have a friend that always talks then hangs up wants something but never gives back and always asks my husband to fix things and yes she has a husband of her own but is hardly ever there for me !!!!! Am I the only one ??? Does ur friends take and not give to the relationship and what do u do about it ????????

by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:29 PM
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NatesMommy118
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:33 PM

 Yep...my "best friend" only talks to me when it's convient for her. She's never there for me when I need here...people suck. whatever happened to having good friends?

b_rod
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:35 PM

Those people do not remain my friend. I'm not a needy person, but sometimes it feels good to vent.

bjw_053109
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:36 PM
This


Quoting NatesMommy118:

 Yep...my "best friend" only talks to me when it's convient for her. She's never there for me when I need here...people suck. whatever happened to having good friends?


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alotta_fagina
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:37 PM


Quoting NatesMommy118:

 Yep...my "best friend" only talks to me when it's convient for her. She's never there for me when I need here...people suck. whatever happened to having good friends?

this exactly. but then again, now we are only occasional facebook chatters and that is as far as the friendship goes. unfortunetally

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Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:40 PM

No.  Why would I keep someone like this in my life?

Beautifulmom513
by Platinum Member on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:41 PM

ya i have had a few friends like this. i will call and call and call and they won't answer. but the only time i hear back from them is when its convenient for them. or if they want something. i have eventually stopped being friends w/ people like that cuz it just pisses me off too much. its so 1 sided and not fair. i rather have no friends at all then deal w/ that stupid immature crap.

crazymama2kids
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:41 PM
then why do you even bother with her? That's not a friend

Quoting NatesMommy118:

 Yep...my "best friend" only talks to me when it's convient for her. She's never there for me when I need here...people suck. whatever happened to having good friends?

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CAMKsMom
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:42 PM

The best way to teach someone how to be a friend is to be a friend.  Also, you need to make it clear in a polite way that you expect the favor to be returned.  Maybe take it up a notch by making it obvious what you do to help her..."Hey Friend, I loaned you my car last week, mine is broken down...Can I get a ride to....?"  "Sure I would be glad to give you some milk since you've run out...next time you're at the grocery store if I give you the money, can you pick some up for me?"  "Sure I can give you twenty bucks but it's the end of the month so money is running tight for me.  Please pay me back as soon as possible.  I want to make sure that if someone else needs to borrow money that I can help them like I am helping you."

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SAMNMAYASMOM
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:42 PM

 Nope.

NatesMommy118
by on Jun. 27, 2010 at 10:42 PM

 yeah its sad when that happens...

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