How can he be so mean? My husband blew off our anniversary today...
I went to the store yesterday and bought him some nice cheese, grapes, a bottle of wine, some salami, jelly bellies and some chocolates. I got home and all he could say is "I don't like brie and I never really liked jelly bellies." No thank you, nothin'....
Then today I came to him first thing in the morning and wished him happy anniversary, gave him a kiss and hug and told him I loved him. So the day went on and I asked if he wanted to go have a picnic at the lake with the kids. He just said, "it doesn't matter" so I packed our lunch and we headed out. When we got there he just wandered off. His whole attitude today can be summed up in one word...BLAH.
I started feeling really sad. He hardly spoke to me all day and didn't get me anything. Well, around 7pm tonight I just told him how I felt. How I thought he was being distant and that I felt like he just wasn't paying any attention to me. Ok, now he thinks I'm in "fight mode" but I just wanted him to know how I felt. So then he walks away and says, "I got you a card". I told him that maybe next time he should give it to me at the beginning of the day not at 7 o'clock at night!
Ugh, what an awful anniversary. I hate anniversaries and valentine's day and birthdays 'cause this has become a pattern. I know I'm not perfect but I'm not mean like he is.
So sad, been crying all day. My eyes are swollen and I'm so tired. Don't know what to do, just needing to vent.
I get jealous when I hear of couples that are so happy and husbands who are romantic, it sucks so bad.