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So you dont pay child support and refuse to pay for his school too...

Posted by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:32 PM
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My sons father refuses to pay for his schooling. He says hes only paying half or i give him Roan and he'll pay all of it. As if id give him my son. I could see him only paying half if he paid child support but he doesnt. Hes given me 400 dollars in one year and only sees him for a week or a week and a half every month. Thats if he doesnt have training....then i have him longer. i dont have the money to pay it right now. i told him the moment i found a job id pay half but he said that its not his problem. He says i think of him as a piggy bank and am constantly asking him for stuff. I havent asked him for any money this whole last year except on xmas and he said no and i said ok......oh and some socks and underwear. how is that me treating him like a piggy bank or always asking him for stuff. well i wont be able to put my son in school until i find a job and that schmuck is getting taken to f*ing court in the mean time. No more crap!

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by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:32 PM
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sati769leigh
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:32 PM

ugh

Mamie_85
by Ruby Member on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:33 PM

What a jerk. Take him to court.

momcat437
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:34 PM

 You can't do anything unless you have a court order--go get one ASAP!!

ashmarie08
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:34 PM

 send him to a public school.

Kylie819
by Emerald Member on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:35 PM
Take him to court.
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jillbailey26
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:35 PM

Just go to Child Support Enforcement.  They'll take it right out of his paycheck before he even sees it.


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Zuryplus3
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:37 PM

I need to pay anyway because i live in an unincorporated area and everyone has to pay a fee to go to school

Quoting ashmarie08:

 send him to a public school.


crazynlove1207
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:37 PM

Um, if you can't even get him to pay child support why on Earth would you expect that he would pay for the school. If you can't afford the school, then find a different one.

alexluck
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:37 PM

CHild Support Honey thats all u got to do. Men are such butts I know what u mean My ex is the same way with our son sometimes but i already applied for CHild support

jkleinman
by on Aug. 31, 2010 at 8:40 PM
Take him to court. Although it sounds like he's military. If he is contact his CO, they'll take care of it. Good luck.
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