Are there any HAPPILY married moms on here at all?! EDITED
Seriously, it seems like all you ladies do is fuss about your husbands and the things they do to piss you off all the times. That, and wonder if your DH is cheating, accuse him of cheating, say that he admitted he cheated, etc.
Are there any women in this group that are actually happily married? And by this I mean:
- You love your husband and aren't interested in leaving him/cheating on him/etc.
- You have a 100% trusting relationship. You trust your husband even around other women, and he trusts you even around other men.
- You and your husband aren't fighting all the time. You're not physically abused and you're not interested in murdering him in his sleep.
- You are your husband's best friend, and he is yours.
Basically, you get my drift with this one.
I love my husband. He makes me so happy, all the time. We spend time together and are best friends.
We trust each other 100% (I even get to spend the night at my best friend's house and play video games or get drunk - and the friend is a guy that I used to sleep with, before I met DH). I trust DH even if he's texting or talking to a female friend, when he occasionally gives a woman a ride home from work, when he works late, or when he goes out with the guys.
We do little silly things for each other (he gets me random gifts, like a Superball from the machine at the store).
We have sex. And it's great sex! We work to please each other physically. And we care for one another and our needs - physical, emotional, spiritual, mental, intellectual. Plus we have great conversations. We can talk for hours, about anything and everything. We are completely transparent with one another - no holding back, no glossing things over or sugar-coating, no lies.
Are there ANY women out there who are 100% happy in their marriage?
EDIT: I wanted to make the note that just because you fight with your husband & argue *sometimes* doesn't mean you're not happy - that's not what I was saying. Of course our hubbies can get annoying sometimes, and we as wives can get pretty annoying too. What I meant by that is not physically fighting, and not constantly in one argument or another. :)
Me...I'm still over the moon in love with my DH and am getting extremely depressed that he'll be leaving for a week for training at his new job. I can't stand the thought of him being gone. :-(
My husband and I just celebrated 9 happy years this month.
I am a non-ERF, can't wait to drop the booster, breast-fed til 6 weeks, Nestle formula using, pro-choice, Independent, open-minded, gay marriage supporting, CIO, NON-AP, former Marine mom to the only perfect child on Earth. Don't tell me how to raise my kid, and I won't tell you what's wrong with yours!
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- WomanWitty
on Sep. 1, 2010 at 4:47 PM