Welcome to CafeMom
join our community and talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

We won't show your age or birthday to anyone unless you want us to!

you would think after almost 6 years...

Posted by on Sep. 5, 2010 at 9:32 PM
  • 8 Replies

I hate being touched, I hate cuddling. I have tried to cuddle with him, i can't do it. I have this thing i can't stand being touched by a man. He knows i freak out about when he tries to touch me or cuddle with me, but yet he keeps doing it. I get real upset an usually start to cry. now, there are times when i can cuddle an be touched, but i can't do it all the time. i don't know i'm just weird i guess.

Karma, What goes around comes around, an when it comes back around it's gonna kick you in the ass twice as hard.


Skylar is my life saver!! (wanna know why I call him this just ask)


Keven is my badass!! (he's a big mama's boy)


Bryce is my sexy baby!! (yes, i said he is my sexy baby) 


Yes, I was a teenage mom, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Posted by on Sep. 5, 2010 at 9:32 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies:
MrsDuNn06
by Gold Member on Sep. 5, 2010 at 9:33 PM

 i love to cuddle but with hubby working nights and having 2 kids under 3, its pretty much impossible :(

pegleg63
by Member on Sep. 5, 2010 at 9:35 PM

Do you have any idea why are like this?  Any past abuse issues?  My sister is a bit like this, doesn't like to be touched or hugged, will only tolerate it from her husband and her two sons. Do you want to be able to cuddle and be touched and feel good about it?

mommyof2boysmd
by Silver Member on Sep. 5, 2010 at 9:37 PM

i was molested.

Quoting pegleg63:

Do you have any idea why are like this?  Any past abuse issues?  My sister is a bit like this, doesn't like to be touched or hugged, will only tolerate it from her husband and her two sons. Do you want to be able to cuddle and be touched and feel good about it?


Karma, What goes around comes around, an when it comes back around it's gonna kick you in the ass twice as hard.


Skylar is my life saver!! (wanna know why I call him this just ask)


Keven is my badass!! (he's a big mama's boy)


Bryce is my sexy baby!! (yes, i said he is my sexy baby) 


Yes, I was a teenage mom, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Rockabilly_ma13
by on Sep. 5, 2010 at 9:40 PM
I hate cuddling. .no underline reason I just don't like it
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
bamababe1975
by Platinum Member on Sep. 5, 2010 at 10:53 PM

Have you tried talking to someone about this to help you get past it so you can enjoy touching and cuddling again?

momto3infl
by Ruby Member on Sep. 5, 2010 at 10:55 PM

 Most of the time I hate to cuddle due to being too hot in bed but I dont mind touching

CMcLaws
by Carrie on Sep. 5, 2010 at 11:03 PM

I'm sorry, hun! :-( 

Quoting mommyof2boysmd:

i was molested

 

mommyof2boysmd
by Silver Member on Sep. 5, 2010 at 11:50 PM

yep, still don't like it

Quoting bamababe1975:

Have you tried talking to someone about this to help you get past it so you can enjoy touching and cuddling again?


Karma, What goes around comes around, an when it comes back around it's gonna kick you in the ass twice as hard.


Skylar is my life saver!! (wanna know why I call him this just ask)


Keven is my badass!! (he's a big mama's boy)


Bryce is my sexy baby!! (yes, i said he is my sexy baby) 


Yes, I was a teenage mom, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Welcome to CafeMom
join our community and talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

We won't show your age or birthday to anyone unless you want us to!
Advertisement