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Almost 18 and pregnant with her 10th baby?!??

Posted by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:41 PM
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About 2 years ago this girl asked me to be her friend on myspace and she was pregnant with triplets.
No problem I added her (I was part of a teen mom group) than the facebook stage started and I added her on there.

I do not have a problem with this girl but she seems fake.

Here is some background on this girl(this is straight off facebook):

When i was 12 years old, i started date Jason James Nevins. he was my first boyfriend, my first love, and my absolute everything. when i was 13, Jason and I started having sex, and soon after, i realized i was pregnant. after 40 long weeks, our son Carson James Nevins was born on February 16th 2007, just before my 14th birthday. We were scared, but couldn't be happier. Jason loved Carson with all his heart. When Carson was about 3 or 4 months old, I thought I might be pregnant again. When i told Jason, he freaked, saying i needed to find out, and terminate it. I went to the clinic planning to do just that, but when the doctor said she heard TWO heartbeats, i couldn't go through with it. Jason said one kid was enough, he wasn't interested in being a father of 3 at 16, so he broke up with me.

While pregnant with twins, I regularly took Carson to a daycare center, so i could go to school. The son of the woman who ran the daycare, had a bond with Carson, and was super friendly to me. His name was Brandon Zachary Stokdal. When he found out I was single, he asked me on a date, as friends, knowing I was pregnant with Jason's twin sons. But, the dates continued and Brandon and I fell in love. He was there for me through the whole pregnancy, he acted like a father twoards Carson, and wanted to take care of me and my twins. On December 19th 2007, 10 months after Carson was born, identical twins Clay Camryn Nevins & Chase Ryan Nevins were born.

Jason missed the birth of his sons and continued to want nothing to do with me....Brandon said he was in love with me, wanted to spend the rest of his life with me & start a family. We were so excited, that we wanted to start our family RIGHT away. So we started trying to get pregnant, and we did. We were literally jumping for joy when the ultrasound tech said "congrats you;re expecting you're 2nd set of twins!" I honestly couldn't believe it. But when i was about 5 months pregnant, Jason came to me.

He said he was sorry for everything. That he was still in love with me, and felt like such a shitty dad to his sons. He wanted to make it up to us and be a family again. He was planning on moving to New Jersey with his mom, and he wanted us to come with him. So, I had an issue. As much as i loved Brandon...I was truly still in love with Jason, he meant the world to me and i wanted nothing more than for us and our 3 sons to be a family.....but i was pregnant. I chose to move to Jersey..with the agreement that Brandon would fly out there for the birth of our twins, and we would decide where to go from there, and it happened sooner than expected. At only 32 weeks, Rylie Aubrianna Danielle Stokdal & Rylan Adam Daniel Stokdal were born September 13th 2008. Brandon and I decided that the twins would live with me, he felt I deserved them, but he was heartbroken over the entire situation.
Jason and I were in love, and I made a new life in New Jersey. A few months after Rylie & Rylan were born, Jason proposed to me and we decided we wanted a little girl of our own. So we tried to get pregnant, it took a little awhile, but eventually we got there, and to our HUGE surprise, I was blessed with three babies growing inside me. When Brandon heard about this, he threatened to sue for custody of our twins, because he didn't think i could possible take care of them and have triplets on the way. So, we avoided court, and Brandon took my twins from me, it was hard, but it was the right choice for them at the time. 

August 1st 2009; Chaylin Brittany Nevins, Camdyn Jason Nevins & Cash James Nevins were born. Being pregnant with triplets is no joke! It was hard with 3 toddlers and that huge belly! But i made it! Sadly, only a month after they were born, Jason cheated on me and we ended our engagement. I became a single mom, working & going to school. It was then that i met Carter Adam Drake in one of my classes. Carter and I started hanging out a lot....having sex...falling for each other. We eventually started dating...and then i realized I was pregnant. It came as a surprise to both of us, it was unplanned, we weren't being careful. Carter broke up with me...saying he wanted nothing to do with a kid. But of course i wanted to keep the baby. When Jason found out I was pregnant, he tried to get me back, saying he had fucked up again and wanted to be there for his 6 kids, and to adopt the baby in my belly. So i took him back...we moved down to GA with my mom and her fiance, but after a few months of being engaged again and dealing with 6 kids and a pregnancy...we called it quits. We weren't meant to be. 

Eventually, Carter and I rekindled our relationship. He admitted to being scared and freaking out, and was sorry he wasn't there for me. He wanted to be a good father to his daughter. Carter moved down to GA to be with us. But, Carter and I didn't end up working out. Our daughter Hayley Rae Drake was born July 16th 2010. A few weeks before her birth, I met the most amazing guy. Ryan Xavier Hart; rich, smart, older & a single dad himself to 4 awesome kids. Austin Landon, Dallas Shane, Dillon Tyler & Savannah McKenna. Ryan and I instantly clicked, he didn't even care that i was 9 months pregnant! After Hayley was born, we started dating, and before long i was moved in and married! 3rd times a charm!

Carter Drake, Hayley's father, passed away in a car accident when she was only a month old.

It breaks my heart to lose such a good friend & amazing father to my beautiful baby girl.

RIP Carter, forever young, God has better plans for you<3

My daughter Rylie Aubrianna Danielle, has nueroblastoma. Her, my ex Brandon & her brother Rylan have moved to GA to be closer to me. She is currently in the children's hospital receiving treatment, and we pray everyday for her recovery! xox

I recently found out i am pregnant! With my 10th child. My husband Ryan is the father, and I am due in May. I'm hoping for a girl! Can't wait! I believe are children are blessings from God. I have no plans to stop having kids, or stop loving the ones i have. my kids are my world.

In no way am I trying to put this girl on blast but its very hard to believe that she is is almost 18 and pregnant with her 10th kid
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by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:41 PM
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krayzbabylove
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:42 PM
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Bumping for later... i dont have time to read all of this ATM...

PhotoMama88
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:44 PM

 Wow...............Can she even afford  them?!

itsallabtthem84
by Gold Member on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:45 PM

Wow, that is just crazy.

lizzysmom2807
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:45 PM
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Her "husband" is 25 and is a gyno so he is suppose to have a lot of money


Quoting PhotoMama88:

 Wow...............Can she even afford  them?!


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beckygeiger
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:46 PM

wow that is crazy, sounds like a lot of details to be fake but you never know, that is a whole lot of babies

jbbrom
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:46 PM
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Wow....just wow....
newmama008
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:46 PM
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Sounds like a joke to me.... Or just a really big whore!
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ashlee_ann
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:47 PM
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omg! you should pm me her FB page i wanna see!!

lyranightshade
by Ruby Member on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:47 PM
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I suppose that -could- happen.. but.. sweet JESUS, if it's for real.. how could she possibly afford to feed and clothe and put them in daycare? How is it possible? She must spend all of her time pregnant. Her belly must look like a deflated helium balloon...

LilMomma212
by on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:47 PM
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wow 

I am the sweetest bitch you'll ever know...big smile mini

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