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It just doesn't seem fair

Posted by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:28 AM
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If a woman is not made to carry a child that she doen't want , but the father does. How come its legal to force a man to pay child support for a child hee did not want & the mother refused to abort?
It just doesn't seem fair that one sex has a choice and the other doesn't. I just don't get it.
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mommy_rios
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:30 AM
Good point. I think both sides should agreeb
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gulfcoastmom4
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:32 AM

Here we go

imthatgirl728
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:32 AM

I do agree with you. Unfortunately there is no way to leally enforce some dads to pay child support, while letig others walk through.

You would end up with a mess of "well I never wanted the kid". Way to easy.

mommy_rios
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:34 AM
Also a good point.

Quoting imthatgirl728:

I do agree with you. Unfortunately there is no way to leally enforce some dads to pay child support, while letig others walk through.


You would end up with a mess of "well I never wanted the kid". Way to easy.

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WhitleyLyles
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:35 AM
Oh dear- I just woke up...
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gulfcoastmom4
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:35 AM

If a man doesn't want to pay CS he should keep it in his pants.

momofnhimai
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:36 AM

again.  it is too early to fight about this.


ChaoticSoul
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:37 AM
that is true. But it just seems so sad that some of these aborted babies were/are wanted by their father's and were never given a chance. Then their are women who make the choice to keep a child no wanted by both parties and file child support...it so unbalanced! I think fathers should have more rights than they do.
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mommy_rios
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:38 AM
True.
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nemiller
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 6:38 AM

life isn't fair in general.  simple enough: if you don't want kids, protect yourself.  if you do want kids, find a partner who wants kids as well.

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