How often does your husband get to go out by himself?
Personally I feel my marriage is going down the toilet, my husband is hours late coming home from work several times a week and either drunk or high on something (he smokes that spike, legal weed crap guess)
Anyways this has been a constant battle for 5 years. I think he has a drinking problem there have been times he didn't even come home, during the week or on weekends.
He goes out for hours on the weekends sometimes etc. I am always home with the kids 24/7.
Anyhow, he thinks everything is fine, I asked him to stop drinking for 30 days he didn't even go 2 weeks after he promised me to try.
He feels he should be able to hang out with the guys whenever he wants and I should not be mad about it because he doesn't hit me or cheat.
Plus, he says I can go out whenever but I have no friends here, no money to do anything, don't drink, etc. I don't really feel the need to go party either.
Even if I don't go out, that doesn't mean he needs to for the both of us!
Anyways, how often do you think it is appropriate for your husband to go out by himself?
PS. I have told him how I feel, that I hate it, he has promised to stop but it never lasts long, he just starts doing it again. I am really trying to decide now if it is time to leave because this has been ongoing and no matter what I have said and done the last several years, it never gets fixed.