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It's time to call the lawyer

Posted by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 1:01 PM
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I knew it was going to come down to this. Honestly I just need someone to calm me down. I'm pregnant and really worked up.
My ex got me pregnant when I was 16 he got some other girl pregnant too. She was 13. He was 19 so he got charged with statutory rape and he's a registered sex offender. I had an attorney draw up an agreement after DD was born. The agreement states that I will be granted full legal and physical custody and that my ex will get supervised and limited visitation up to 3 times a week. With a 48hr notice. Also that he will pay $200 a month for CS. He wanted nothing to do with her for the first 6 yrs and then once a yr was enough for him. Until about 7 months ago and then he wanted visits monthly which I allowed to happen. He never calls her just shoots me a text when he's coming. Now he says when he gets the money he wants to take me to court to redue the agreement and have he on weekends. He's living with the girl that he "statutory raped" and her kids. I'm remarried my husband was going to adopt dd but then all this shit with my ex saying I wanna be a dad came up and so I made him start to actually pay. It's a total mess. I'm waiting for attorneys to call me back. I am just scared!!!!
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LancesMom
by Ruby Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 3:37 PM

Its good you are talking to a lawyer. They will give you all the options you can have. Hope it works out for you! Good Luck!

tiggerpncespooh
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 3:38 PM

Yes it is time to talk to your lawyer.

Shauna71904
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 3:39 PM

if he legitimated her he will have to release parental rights... then your husband can file to adopt.

Kristen1010
by Silver Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 3:44 PM
The courts will do what is in the best interest of the child. I'm sure they will cut him some slack for the stat rape charge since he's currently in a relationship with her. Good luck and you are doing the right thing getting a lawyer.
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sweetwatertaffi
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 4:19 PM

I dont mean any disrespect to you but uhhh.. yeah he wants her now she old enough for him to molest now!!!! Please dont let this happen!!!!!

CountryGirl0809
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 4:23 PM

thats a bad situation.   but really  did you actualy think he wouldn't want to see his daugher and still continue to pay you child support?    I mean I wouldn't wanna pay for something that I don't ever get to see.  regardless of whatever the situation is.   I personally would have never even asked for anything from him money wise for the fear that this would happen!   You knew what kinda man he was and what he did.     I would get an attorney now and see what to do.    

momofSkyeNShy
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 5:30 PM
He payed for almost two yrs without wanting to see her. Plus I do let him see her I just want to follow the agreement.


Quoting CountryGirl0809:

thats a bad situation.   but really  did you actualy think he wouldn't want to see his daugher and still continue to pay you child support?    I mean I wouldn't wanna pay for something that I don't ever get to see.  regardless of whatever the situation is.   I personally would have never even asked for anything from him money wise for the fear that this would happen!   You knew what kinda man he was and what he did.     I would get an attorney now and see what to do.    


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