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Do you think abortion is ok when....

Posted by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:45 PM
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The guy who got you pregnant is extremely abusive? What if you had taken precuations not to have a baby with the man but he hid your birth control and you had no other way to get more.... do you think its wrong?

Just a general ? I'm asking. Sorry if it has been discussed before.


***EDIT*** I think some of you got it, but some haven't. THIS WAS NOT ME. This was a dear friend of mine.... She did leave the abuser but it took some time, at the time she was too afraid too. This hits kinda close to home because I was also in a extremely abusive relationship and he caused me to miscarry twice.... So I can kind of understand what she did but then again I don't.... you know

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.Boricua
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:46 PM

I think its wrong. Not the babys fault.

.kk.
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:46 PM
I have a hard time saying abortion is 'okay'. Being pro choice does not mean that you want people to go out and get abortions. I refuse to give anyone my approval for their abortion. They don't need my approval. I believe the government should not have the right to intervene in our medical decisions- that should be between ourselves, the people in our lives and our medical professionals.
activitymode
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:46 PM

the baby could always make a wonderful home to a couple who really wanted one :)

FooLynRoo
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:47 PM

Abortion is never okay for me. If you want one its your own decision if its okay or not.

annies75
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:47 PM
I understand that but if the guy is physically abusive and prob wouldn't have stopped just because he knocked you up. Wouldn't u feel like you were doing the right thing?
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YeahSoWhat
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:47 PM
i don't think its wrong. If the woman didn't want the baby in the first place then why force her to.
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megarooniduh
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:47 PM

 I would have the baby (because personally I'm pro life) and get the HELL out of that relationship.

Bknotnobody
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:47 PM

If the guy is that abusive.... then no... who would want to live their life in fear... for 9 months, I mean hell he could kill her, or the unborn child... if he beats the crap out of her.

momto2boys973
by Platinum Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:48 PM

Yeah, I think it's wrong, except when the mother's life is in danger.

Sharon

annies75
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 7:48 PM
Just for the record. I have never had an abortion. But was just thinking about this. What if adoption wasn't the answer because the man wouldn't allow it or give up rights?
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