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caught my s/o

Posted by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:44 PM
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I caught my s/o watching porn. So I told him I'm not having sex with him for a long while. It has been very quiet at home lately.

K so it isn't that he is watching porn alone I guess I shoulda worded it better. I caught him watching it on my computer. Which my cause a virus and shit I don't want on my pc

We watch it from time to time and do have toys. It was cause it was on my pc.


He can watch porn without it being on my computer. I generaly use my pc for work and do not need anything about porn popping up. He can watch it in the bedroom, I am ok with that. Again I watch it with him from time to time. And it isn't like I am not going to have sex with him ever again, just like a week really (just won't tell him that). And we aren't married we are engaged.


Tehe you women amuse me with all your "knowledge" on my life and my s/o. Excuse me for thinking that my computer, for my work, shouldn't have porn on it when it is in the living room in plain view of my child. To those who ask why we aren't married yet it is because our wedding date hasn't happened yet, we are getting married in April of 2011. He knows how I feel about porn on my computer, and I have talked to him about it more then once and this isn't the first time I caught him on my computer looking it up. Thankfully my baby hasn't been home either time.

Porn is fine in the privacy of the bedroom away from the children. But there is no way in hell I am going to approve of him watching in the living room.

And I can with hold sex, he does learn. I have done this before and it only took him three days to figure out he fucked up.

I refuse to read all of the comments right now as I am about to start helping my baby with things she has to do. Feel free to continue to bash, it is my home and my child. She does not need to be around porn and it is not allowed in my living room.


Should I feel honored that some of you women have turned my vent into drama? I mean I rarely come on here so I guess I should.

rolling on floor

by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:44 PM
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kcook55
by Platinum Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:45 PM

i dont see what the big deal is.........

clovismommy25
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:45 PM

good for you. I did the same thing. Turns out he was addicted. So glad he finally got help! This is a porn free home now! Thank God!

MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:45 PM

Ok, why would you not have sex with him because he watched porn?
How is that solving anything?



Vegetarianmama
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:46 PM
I'm with you on it. It's something I just can't put up with in my home, as much as I've tried not to care I just can't let it go...
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Christy644
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:46 PM

I caught my SO watching porn so I got on my knees and joined him. My house has been crazy loud!!!!

I like my version better lol

sweetpea1269
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:47 PM

this...exactly

Quoting MIA0223:

Ok, why would you not have sex with him because he watched porn?
How is that solving anything?

 

anetrnlov
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:47 PM

Using sex as punishment....now there's maturity for you.

jenn75
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:47 PM

You catch him having sex with himself, so you tell him that he can't have sex with you? Who is he supposed to have sex with!?

FooLynRoo
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:47 PM

That's sad. I dont boss my husband around.. or use our love life as a weapon. Then again I dont have sex issues or issues with enjoying some porn.

BambiF
by on Sep. 28, 2010 at 8:48 PM

Sorry :(
I also do not want to have sex with my husband when he has knowingly disrespected me.  It is just not a turn on.

You're gonna get bashed.  And I'm sorry for that, too.

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