My mother is being a jerk. What would you do?
Okay I really need some advice on what to do with my jerk of a mother. Okay so my dh and I went over to visit my mother and stepdad and the whole time since me and dh announced we were expecting again my mother has been nothing but rude to me. She keeps on saying I look fat not pg. Like she has room to talk she weighs a good 150lbs more then me. I have asked alot of my friends and family for their honest opinion and asked if I looked fat and they have all said no. It seems my mother is the only one who thinks so. I looked at myself in the mirror and it looks like I taped a watermelon to my stomach. I just don't know what to do anymore with her every time I see her or talk to her she insults us and it is always about our pregnancy. I seriously thinks she is jealous of us.
Well I have thought about what to do and the best I came up with is to ask my grandmother (my mothers mother) to have a talk with my mother about her attitude. My grandmother is one of those elderly women who are very outspoken and a no nonsence type of ppl. I was thinking since my own mother won't listen to me when I tell her to stop insulting us that she would listen to her own mother. Everyone listens to my grandmother. And I was thinking of talking to my grandmother about talking to my mother about this at Thanksgiving since that is the only time I will see her until Christmas. So what do you think? What would you do?