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s/o from "my child was born out of wedlock"

Posted by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:09 PM
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Question: was your oldest conceived out of wedlock? born?

Options:

no

conceived out of wedlock but born after we married

yes, concieved and born out of wedlock

other?


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Was your oldest conceived out of wedlock? Born that way?

What about you?

All 4 of mine were concieved out of wedlock (2 were born that way)

I was also conceived out of wedlock but my parents married before I was born. Same for Dh.

I have read that most first children are conceived out of wedlock...and 40% of all children are born that way.

Maria--wife to Marc since '03.  Mom to Isabel '96; Joanne '98; Marina '02; and Luisa '04.


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by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:09 PM
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Brianav
by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:11 PM
My dd was born out of wedlock. I was born to married parents.
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LiesLiesLies
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:11 PM

No. I was conceived and born into a marriage as was my child.

kiralyn
by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:12 PM

My daughter was conceived and born before we were married.

My parents were married before conceiving me.

Brooke-Nicole
by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:13 PM

My two oldest children were born out of wedlock by my choice. I did not want to marry their father until I was ready, and I was never ready.  Turned out good for me because he turned out to be doing drugs and not being married gave me the advantage of being able to leave and he couldn't do jack abou tit.

My current child that I'm pregnant with was conceived in marriage with my husband.

My parents were never married.  Which I am thankful for because my life would have been a hell of a lot worse if they had been.  They would have killed each other that's how much they couldn't stand each other.  I'm not even sure how I happened! 

jenn75
by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:13 PM

Nope, none of my kids were born out of wed lock(or conceived)

I was not born or concived out of wed lock(I am a first born) & neither was hub

 I never heard of that statistic. Not saying it's wrong, just never heard it.

Honeybun09
by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:14 PM

To the question, yes. She was conceived and born during our engagement.


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cowboygal
by Gold Member on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:14 PM

 I was conceived after my parents were married. A year in fact. My first was conceived and born out of wedlock. My second was conceived out of but we married when I was almost 5 months pregnant. Both kids have the same father.

mama2KiraEthan
by Bronze Member on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:17 PM

Both ym children were conceived and born out of wedlock. I was also conceived and born out of wedlock; my parents married when I was 2.5. DF was conceived and born out of wedlock; his parents never married and separated when he was 11.

romanceparty4u
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:21 PM
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Most children NOWadays are conceived out of wedlock...

not so true in 1950.

 

LoveMyLife28
by on Nov. 20, 2010 at 12:22 PM

DH and I were both conceived after our parents were married...as were our children.

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