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spanking

Posted by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:47 PM
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Poll

Question: how is it ok to do?

Options:

just a tap on the hand

a slap on the butt

a slap on the bare butt

belt

paddle

other item is ok to spank with

anything as long as no bruses are left

spanking is not ok

other


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Total Votes: 56

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by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:47 PM
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kansasmom1978
by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:48 PM

I will pop them on the butt with my hand.  I will not use any object.

tfro
by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:48 PM

you didnt put water boarding on the list of options

gypsy_rose
by Ruby Member on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:52 PM

????????????????

Quoting tfro:

you didnt put water boarding on the list of options


Msgme
by Platinum Member on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:53 PM

I can only answer for me not other parents.  For me Spanking is never okay.

kenziedawnmom
by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:53 PM

 I did  use my hand but she is too big to spank we now ground   i remember when i was little  you got a spanking with a switch or hand or hey even a wooden spoon talking about lighting that butt up you would remember not to do that again ..lol  My granpa use to talk about how he would hold his kids hands and walk them in a circle with a leather strap all he had to do was look at me i would behave ..lol

mami_rocks
by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:53 PM



Quoting kansasmom1978:

I will pop them on the butt with my hand.  I will not use any object.


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FranksHoney
by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:55 PM

Quoting kansasmom1978:

I will pop them on the butt with my hand.  I will not use any object.


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rocker_mommy_08
by on Jan. 11, 2011 at 12:57 PM

Ill bust my son on the butt with my hand if the situation calls for it (and timeouts are proving to be ineffective)

ddhb2007
by Gold Member on Jan. 11, 2011 at 1:02 PM

Hitting is never okay in our home.  It's not okay to hit my spouse.  It's not okay to hit my child.  It's not okay to hit my dog.  I don't care if you call it tapping, popping, spanking, if your hand connects with another person in a manner that is intended to cause pain, it's hitting.

gilbertgrl627
by Platinum Member on Jan. 11, 2011 at 1:20 PM

A tap/smack on the hand orbutt (bare or not) with my hand. I have tapped/smacked their cheek, but that was when they were BF and bit me (hard enough to make me bleed). I've only had to do that maybe a handful of time with both kids. lol. Not a pleasant feeling when someone bites your nipple so hard that it starts to bleed. But my DS (youngest) hasn't bitten me that hard in....almost a year, I'd say.

And I will never, ever smack them with anything other then my hand, never more then twice, and always as a last resort.

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