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Posted by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:12 AM
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I am sick of seeing the kids come home FILTHY. DSS2 came home with a diaper rash so bad that he was crying when DH was just tring to LOOK at it. I ended up soaking him for 30 min in a oatmeal bath and SLATHERING him with A&D ointment. I could understand a MILD diaper rash it happens but the poor kid was shaking he was in so much pain! All three were FILTHY I am DISCUSTED with the way she treats them but we can't do anything because we "Have to send them for their visitation" I am geting sick of this crap! I want my babies to be SAFE where they go!  

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childofthesun
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:14 AM

You can document these things and photograph.

OkieGirlKatrina
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:15 AM

document document document.   take him to the doctor and have the doctor make a record of it and talk to a lawyer and see how much you need to document before you can take her to court and get her visitation changed to SUPERVISED since she is not taking proper care of her children

gypsy_rose
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:16 AM

theres no proof it's HER neglecting them

Quoting OkieGirlKatrina:

document document document.   take him to the doctor and have the doctor make a record of it and talk to a lawyer and see how much you need to document before you can take her to court and get her visitation changed to SUPERVISED since she is not taking proper care of her children


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2aremine
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:18 AM

you could always document and then bring it back to court, def would need to bring kids to pedi with situations such as this one so it is legal documents


childofthesun
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:18 AM

If it happened on HER visit then she is responsible. Even if she'd gotten a sitter for the entire time and they did it. This has happened more than once? You just need to document as much as possible and that will give you the proof you need.

Quoting gypsy_rose:

theres no proof it's HER neglecting them

Quoting OkieGirlKatrina:

document document document.   take him to the doctor and have the doctor make a record of it and talk to a lawyer and see how much you need to document before you can take her to court and get her visitation changed to SUPERVISED since she is not taking proper care of her children

 


jaytee
by Platinum Member on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:20 AM
Some people, I swear!
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Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:21 AM

 Sure there is.  Take pictures before they go, and take pictures after they get home. 

I remember, before we got my son (technically step-son) permanently, the first thing we would do is dump him in the bath tub.  He was disgusting.  I don't he ever got baths at her house.  He was also still wetting the bed (he was 3, no biggie), and she would just let him sleep in it.  He cried when we bought Pull Ups because he didn't want to wear a diaper.  We would send them with him, and she would send them all back along with his wet nasty underwear.

Quoting gypsy_rose:

theres no proof it's HER neglecting them

Quoting OkieGirlKatrina:

document document document.   take him to the doctor and have the doctor make a record of it and talk to a lawyer and see how much you need to document before you can take her to court and get her visitation changed to SUPERVISED since she is not taking proper care of her children

 

 


highbridgemom
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:21 AM

Take pics before and after.  Document if they have any bruises, etc when they leave and what they come back with. 

If this is a regular occurence during her visitations, then she IS neglecting them.

gypsy_rose
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:23 AM

MULTIPLE times and that is what we get for answers when we report it. There is no proof it happend on her time

Quoting childofthesun:

If it happened on HER visit then she is responsible. Even if she'd gotten a sitter for the entire time and they did it. This has happened more than once? You just need to document as much as possible and that will give you the proof you need.

Quoting gypsy_rose:

theres no proof it's HER neglecting them

Quoting OkieGirlKatrina:

document document document.   take him to the doctor and have the doctor make a record of it and talk to a lawyer and see how much you need to document before you can take her to court and get her visitation changed to SUPERVISED since she is not taking proper care of her children

 

 


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gypsy_rose
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 9:25 AM

oh and we don't take photos of the diaper rashes because we were told (by the cops) it was child porn we have taken them to the DR just so there is documantation

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