Little back story- They dated a very short time, She got pregnant, and when he found out they were having a girl he split. 4 months later he is deployed to Kuwait. Comes home doesn't try to see the baby, doesn't call, e-mail, nothing. No child support. So My sister (after the baby is almost 1 1/2) goes to child support enforcement, does a dna swab. He is now moving out of state to try and get away from doing the test. Anyway ff to now. He is still in the state, Court is next week for his dna test. He wants her to meet with him to "Talk" after not having seen her for over a year. Catch is, he doesn't want her to bring anyone with her, including the baby. And Wants to meet around 2 or 3 am. At secluded destinations. He said that's the only way he will talk. So my sister wont do it. Now there is a weird car parked at the end of her road, her new Boyfriend leaves her house the other night, when he passes this car, (which was parked) the car turns on it's lights and tries to run him off the road. Thinking my sister was in the car. He also (in an e-mail) told her about the babies doctors appt last week and what she was driving exc. Like he is watching her. My sister thinks he is trying to kill her so he doesn't have to pay child support to make this all go away. What are all of her options here? She can't get a restraining order without proof of intent to harm her or the baby. Thanks for reading all of this!