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Would you be supportive of your daughters marriage if...

Posted by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 10:58 AM
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The guy she is going to marry has broken into your private finances and done a back ground check on both you and your husband?
He also brought a loaded gun (in his pocket, unholstered) to a family function.
BUT, he is very wealthy, owns a home in a very upscale area. As well as vacation home in Hawaii. And he loves your daughter so much, he's not asking her to sign a prenup.
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ChelseaLiz
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 10:59 AM
Yes.
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Rhyne
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:03 AM
Bump
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Rhyne
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:04 AM
Also, he has a past with hard drugs, such as Crystal Meth and Heroine.
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Pnukey
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:05 AM

no

MommySteph06
by Platinum Member on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:05 AM

No I wouldn't. I'd want my daughter to be happy, but I'd be scared for her future with someone like that. Money can't make someone a good person.

..A5HL3Y..
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:06 AM
Yes
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Glittergirlie
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:08 AM

 the money doesnt matter....he sounds like he might move her off  somewhere and hurt her, or be abusive

mes_deux_amours
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:08 AM
Broke into our finances?

Background check isn't a big deal to me. Especially if he has a lot to protect. Parents do them on potential SO's and so do women on occasion.
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RaynesMommy07
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:10 AM
This. Background checks wouldn't bother me. But break into our finances. Wtf!?! Lol

Quoting mes_deux_amours:

Broke into our finances?



Background check isn't a big deal to me. Especially if he has a lot to protect. Parents do them on potential SO's and so do women on occasion.
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Somewoman.on.cm
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 11:10 AM

yes, not only because by the time the wedding was going to happen I would of already done background checks on him and his family and a financial check.... this is my daughter we're talking about...

the gun, I don't know... is he crazy or are you in Texas?

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