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i just want to feel wanted!

Posted by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:04 PM
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My bf is only in the mood once a week and if I initiate he doesn't turn me down but we hadn't had sex since last Saturday and he didn't make a move at all last night when I slept over. How do I make him understand that I want to feel wanted even if we don't have sex ifhe just kissed me more or held me closer. I don't want to feel like hey sure sleep over if you want to that's cool. I want him to show me that he wants me there.
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yezay
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:08 PM
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ShalaneAnn
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:13 PM
I have the same problem except I live with mine. We been together since 2006.


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yezay
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:16 PM
If we lived together and things didn't change id be really depressed lol. He's a great man and always holding my hand or having a hand on me. Sometimes I want that I NEED YOU RIGHT NOW feeling more often.
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aneela
by 80sTardisGirl4Gore on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:19 PM

have you talked to him about it?

does he work a lot?

maybe he is just tired?

has he always been like this or a recent change?



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yezay
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:23 PM
He's always been like this idk if he just has a low sex drive. He had to be up early for work this morning and I didn't get there til almost 1130 after work last night. I just want him to show that he wants me even if he's too tired for sex. Just pull me in for a long kiss (but then id be super horny lol)
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aneela
by 80sTardisGirl4Gore on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:24 PM

he may even have a medical condition but it could just be he is tired a lot...talk to him though.

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He's always been like this idk if he just has a low sex drive. He had to be up early for work this morning and I didn't get there til almost 1130 after work last night. I just want him to show that he wants me even if he's too tired for sex. Just pull me in for a long kiss (but then id be super horny lol)


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yezay
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:28 PM
When he's good he's good lol. Im just used to men who demand sex and are all over me I think lol. I feel like after nearly 4 months were starting to "settle" in. When I sleep over I want it to be special since its only twice a week not like just 2 ppl sharing a bed.
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yezay
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 12:34 PM
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wiard4jesus
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 1:11 PM
Have you talked to him about how your feeling??
yezay
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:55 PM
No I don't like to seem needy lol. And I suck at playing hard to get so he knows im available and want to come over so he doesn't really have to work.
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