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My Baby Is Dead: small update

Posted by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:38 PM
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Vent: I was pregnant with a baby boy. My teenage sister in law was also pregnant with a boy. She was due a month before me. In February at 17 weeks my babies heart stopped beating. They were never able to pinpoint 100% why, the doctor guessed cord accident. I was due July 12th. This morning sister in law delivered her baby. I know my loss has absolutely nothing to do with her, but I am just having a hard time today. I keep thinking "My baby is dead and million of tears will not bring him back. He is gone, forever". It hurts....so bad. I miss him so much and my arms ache for him. Will this pain ever end? Vent over. Thanks for listening.

Thank you for all the replies, I read each and every one of them. Also thank you to the ones who sent me private messages. I am going to do my best to respond to as many of you as I can later today. Thank you for the hugs and support and sharing your stories with me. My husband and I tried to conceive for six months before getting pregnant with the baby we lost, and SIL accidently got pregnant by her on again off again boyfriend and was so upset she considered abortion. I am not upset with her, I'm just upset at the situation. It's not fair, but who said life was always fair right?

by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:38 PM
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MommyFlood
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:39 PM
*hugs* I'm so sorry
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mochasista
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:39 PM

I'm sorry for your loss. 

MeganGallagher
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:39 PM

 I am SO sorry sweety!

kayandjsmom
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM

I'm so sorry.

M2TandM
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.
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r_luvli
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM



Quoting MommyFlood:

*hugs* I'm so sorry

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myangels2
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM
Sorry for your loss......(((hugs)))
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EbonySnow
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM

 oh honey I am so very sorry

newfound09
by Gold Member on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM

Awww I am so sorry. After I lost my son my pregnant SIL came to the hospital my son died at I had issues dealing with that. The pain will never go away but it will slowly but surely become easier to deal with. It may take months, years, or it may never go away.

lynnie_poo
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 5:40 PM

oh mommy ((hugs)) and lots of them! That has to be rough!

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