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I freaking hate being me...

Posted by on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:27 PM
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Ok I don't hate everything about me... But I live in the place I graduated from and I have changed since I had my daughter I'm a lot bigger I am trying to lose weight but it's hard and I live in freaking low income housing. What sucks is when I see people I know from school I try to avoid them and people ask me to hang out but.. I've changed I'm the same person but I look different... It's hard when your different. I even have trouble dating bc I think why the heck would someone want to date this fatty.... It's hard!
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sassyscorpio85
by on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:29 PM

aww dont be so hard on yourself...

futureshock
by Emerald Member on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:29 PM

I feel the same way sometimes.

sweetnsassymami
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:30 PM

fuck what ppl say or think. do they do anything for you? You are doing something about your situation and that is all that matters. Head up shoulders back and love yourself girl! Then and only then will you find someone who loves you for you. *hugs*

Justine1123
by Justine on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:33 PM
Thanks!!! It's hard letting people in!

Quoting sweetnsassymami:

fuck what ppl say or think. do they do anything for you? You are doing something about your situation and that is all that matters. Head up shoulders back and love yourself girl! Then and only then will you find someone who loves you for you. *hugs*

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HaydensMommy007
by on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:33 PM

 what are you doing to change?

start out with small changes. Its easier than it sounds! You should lose 1-2 pounds a week (that the healthy/recommended weight loss)

Cut back on calories and go for some walks around your neighborhood.

Its frustrating Im sure. But keep at it. You will see results.

Also, are you in school? Thats a great way to change your life. They have programs for low income families. You should look in to it.

Its hard, but keep your head up. Good luck

Justine1123
by Justine on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:33 PM
Somedays I feel great but sometimes it just hits ya!

Quoting futureshock:

I feel the same way sometimes.

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alwayskk
by on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:34 PM
I totally understand.

I didn't go to my reunion for that reason, and every time a guy is interested in me I wonder what's wrong with them.
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Justine1123
by Justine on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:38 PM
I have lost 16 pounds so I'm trying! I will take your advice! I looked into school but the lady was damn rude bc last year I made good money this year I'm not... So I dunno where to start.

Quoting HaydensMommy007:

 what are you doing to change?


start out with small changes. Its easier than it sounds! You should lose 1-2 pounds a week (that the healthy/recommended weight loss)


Cut back on calories and go for some walks around your neighborhood.


Its frustrating Im sure. But keep at it. You will see results.


Also, are you in school? Thats a great way to change your life. They have programs for low income families. You should look in to it.


Its hard, but keep your head up. Good luck

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Justine1123
by Justine on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:39 PM
I know right? I think the same thing!

Quoting alwayskk:

I totally understand.



I didn't go to my reunion for that reason, and every time a guy is interested in me I wonder what's wrong with them.
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blsdbyangel07
by Evil Food Lady on Jul. 8, 2011 at 2:40 PM

 Hugs to you Justine  :)  I feel the exact same way!

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