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which should i do ?

Posted by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:01 AM
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I'm flying to another state to close on a house that dh and I are renovating and then plan to move to. We set everything up with the bank and realtor while we were there this past week on vacation. The house is only in my name and dh has to work and then there are our children so we thought it would be best if I just go alone.

We have a friend of many years who lives there who has offered to pick me up at the airport, drive me around, and let me stay over night at his place. We have stayed there as a family before.

Well I totally trust him but was just wondering if it might be a better idea to just rent a car at the airport and do my running around and then just catch the next flight back. Thoughts?
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yezay
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:04 AM

Speechless...  I'm in awe as to why he's your friend if you don't trust him...

itseebitsee
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:05 AM
My last paragraph starts with I totally trust him...


Quoting yezay:

Speechless...  I'm in awe as to why he's your friend if you don't trust him...


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beerebelly
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:06 AM

 If you trust him then why are you nervous?

itseebitsee
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:08 AM

I never said I was nervous...just wondering if it would be more "correct" to just handle my business on my own.


Quoting beerebelly:

 If you trust him then why are you nervous?


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thatgirl70
by Carin on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:08 AM

Well if you trust him, then why are you worried? If your DH is concerned about it, yeah then probably best you rent a car, but if he's not bothered by it, *shrug*.

BrownEyedGirl86
by Platinum Member on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:08 AM
I'd get a car
You don't wanna have to wait for someone to be ready so u can run errands
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ginabear1
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:08 AM
I agree

Quoting beerebelly:

 If you trust him then why are you nervous?

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alexsmomaubrys2
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:08 AM

Obviously there is a reason you are uncomfortable with this situation.

I have stayed with male friends without my husband/kids. Because they are just friends.

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beerebelly
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:09 AM

 Who cares then.  Do whatever you feel is best.

i.heart.rachel
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:09 AM

Just sleep with him and get it over with. Then come back and post about it when hubby finds out.

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