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How should I approach MIL and SIL?

Posted by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:27 AM
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Ok Anderson has his blanket,he has loved this blanket since birth, it goes everywhere with him even he is playing it is close by.

Well, my odd has been telling me that at Grandmas he is only allowed to have it at nap and bedtime(if he stays). They fold it up and put it on the counter and odd says he cries for it and she gives it to him. But, then SIL or MIL take it away and put it back on the counter.

They both have been telling me and my odd that do not want him to be Linus and that I should do what they do and only give it at night!!!

WTF!!! I truly do not see the big deal, I am I wrong?

I posted this pic tonight of him and my SIL's response was....1st one..... oh wow. Winter Linus, and her 2nd.... I believe the missing blanket might be why is misbehaves with us...better start just using it at night :)

 

"People don't have a pit bull problem, pit bulls have a people problem."


First they came for the Pit Bulls
and they banned them and killed them
their owners cried out in horror but I did not object
because I did not own pit bulls.

Then they came for the Rottweilers
and they banned them and muzzled them
their owners cried out in protest but I did not object
because I did not own Rottweilers.
Today they have come for my dogs
and they will ban them and take them from me
as I cry out in outrage and anger no one objects
because they do not own my dogs.

by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:27 AM
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BrownEyedGirl86
by Platinum Member on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:31 AM
Id tell em fuck off play by your rules w ur children or dont leave em w them
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pitbull4me
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:36 AM

bump

Zoeysmom09
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:37 AM

BUMP!

spunky946
by Platinum Member on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:37 AM
I think they are right. He does not need it all the time.
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halleys_mommy_1
by +Logan on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:40 AM
This! My kids have there lovies and my parents know this!
Dd has her dogs (she has 20. No lie! )
Ds has his tiger in the can so he can sleep and his blanket in the bedroom. Pretty soon blankie will be going everywhere w us again.

If they can't respect your family then cut them off till they can. Why make him sad and not wanna go there??


Quoting BrownEyedGirl86:

Id tell em fuck off play by your rules w ur children or dont leave em w them

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littlejjsmommy
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:40 AM
I don't see a problem with him having the blanket... tell them to fuck off and leave him alone
iamcafemom83
by Rah-Rah on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:41 AM
How old is he? 1? I could see an issue if he were older but he's just a baby still!! Give the little guy his blankie!!
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littlejjsmommy
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:42 AM
Quoting spunky946:

I think they are right. He does not need it all the time.



Why, what is so wrong with him having the blanket?? it makes him happy and he loves it
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Barronbaby
by Gold Member on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:42 AM
I agree. My dd was the same way with her silky( blanket). My D's has his paci instead but that as well is for bed only. Good luck

Quoting spunky946:

I think they are right. He does not need it all the time.
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silverdawn99
by Jamie on Aug. 17, 2011 at 8:42 AM

he is young. i dont see a problem.

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