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so i look at my boyfriend's text....

Posted by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:23 AM
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And there's a text from his sister, who will be 18 in november.. she texted him off his mom's phone yelling at him about how, to sum it up, how he's not acting like a big brother towards his 10-month-younger brother whose in jail for burglary and drugs..because he hasn't visited him except for once and has written him yet.. but the thing that pisses me off is that she thinks she knows everything.. me and my boyfriend dont have the money for gas to be running so far away to visit him in jail.. and he hasn't written him and sent money because he's been having really bad depression issues, we clearly don't have the money to send him, and my boyfriend is looking for another job.. he's under so much stress right now and she isn't helping at all! I know he got upset when he read that text from her.. but idk what to do..


Any suggestions?








by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:23 AM
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texanmomto3
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:24 AM

Unless he brings it up to you, just leave it alone. 

amyjane22
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:25 AM
I would just askhim if he wants to talk about it and show him your support.
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Trackerchick
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:26 AM
I would leave it between your boyfriend and his sister.
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Mychele
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:29 AM
Why are you reading his phone texts?. That's shady.
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Mom2Be0804
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:32 AM
Leave it alone and let him deal with it. Who cares what his sister says? Only you guys know the truth of your situation.

Why are you looking at his texts anyway?
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Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:33 AM

 Yeah - stop snooping.

1979mommy
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:35 AM

Yup one suggestion....stop reading texts that weren't sent to your phone.

.betty.white.
by bilf on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:37 AM
Stay out of it. Not your family and you don't need to create and pull yourself into any drama which is exactly what will happen if you butt into it. Next leave your bf phone alone.....
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mes_deux_amours
by on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:37 AM

Ugh. I would be the most unsupportive person to know while in jail. I have the money but would never send any to someone is jail. I don't blame you, don't waste money on someone who's not even caring about their own life.

I wouldn't be able to keep what I saw to myself. I would talk to him about how he's feeling.

Did he respond to her?

brettsmomma
by Tammie on Aug. 17, 2011 at 11:38 AM

 Its his sister let him handle it.

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