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Which would you rather? Have herpes or be a single mom?

Posted by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:49 PM
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Question: Herpes or single motherhood?

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Just curious what you ladies think, COMPLETELY hypothetical situations I just pulled out of my ars. 

UPDATE: You have herpes, but you have the love of you life as your husband and children's father. When I say herpes, I mean genital. But there are pros to that, you can control your outbreaks with medication and when  you don't feel like dealing when them, you just hide them in your pants, as opposed to children which cling to you all the time. It is not being a very good mom to hide your kids in your pants. 

And when I say single mom, I mean like being young with a banging body, and then having it and your travel/college plans ruined, your name trashed around your town, everyone calling you a whore and your child a bastard, being stuck in a small town where you have to still see those people, nobody giving you the slightest bit of help, and you living completely alone, no childsupport and baby having no father at all. There is a pro to that to -- you have the CHOICE, and your child is beautiful, fun and happy. You get your body back for the most part. 

by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:49 PM
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gardenchic
by Gold Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:50 PM

HERPES

GardenChic

ladyraven16
by Platinum Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:51 PM
I have it sadly thanks to a cheating bastard when I was 15 and I'm a single mom too. I would say herpes because its not that bad if you take care of it.
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SammiBaby
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:52 PM

I'd rather have herpes.

SevysMomma
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:52 PM
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I guess I would choose single motherhood. I am a single mother and have been for two long years. I haven't killed myself or my kid yet so I guess we're doing ok. And it means I get a smokin' body I am in!

Creek_Momma
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:52 PM
Single Mommy
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YouLoseIWin
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:52 PM
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Single mother.  Why the FUCK would I even want a venerial disease???

mysticalmalissa
by Ruby Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:53 PM

 Herpes!!

marilyn623
by Gold Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:53 PM

herpes. unless it meant that i was with a person that had cheated and given them to me.

Charweba
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:54 PM

 

Quoting YouLoseIWin:

Single mother.  Why the FUCK would I even want a venerial disease???

 COMPLETELY AGREE

futuremilf831
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 4:54 PM
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Single motherhood.

You can get rid of that. Herpes is there for good.
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