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I am the mom of a bully. Ask me anything.

Posted by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:05 AM
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by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:05 AM
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LizzieJane
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:06 AM

How old is your child? What has he/she done that you consider bullying? 

sugareemommee
by Silver Member on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:09 AM

^^ what has he/she done? 

mandksmommy
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:09 AM

what do you do as punishment for this kind of behavior?

momofnhimai
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:10 AM

bump


TrouserMouse
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:11 AM

He is 16. Anytime someone does something he doesn't like, he goes on a tirade of cussing, name calling and will even hurt them physically.  He has targeted several other kids, especially his younger brothers and physically and emotionally abused them.

He will say the meanest things and is just relentless if anyone does anything he doesn't like.

Quoting LizzieJane:

How old is your child? What has he/she done that you consider bullying? 


TrouserMouse
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:12 AM

Well, we do the typical things anyone would do for a teen. We remove all luxury items.  Game systems, phones, MP3 players, and time with friends.

But, after he does these things, he tends to isolate himself.

Quoting mandksmommy:

what do you do as punishment for this kind of behavior?


ChrisNethansmom
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:12 AM
Why does he have anger issues? Have you tried counseling?
gypsy_rose
by Ruby Member on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:13 AM

I am seriously worried SS will turn out like this. He is 5 and constantly is hitting people. He ALMOST got kicked off the bus.

Quoting TrouserMouse:

He is 16. Anytime someone does something he doesn't like, he goes on a tirade of cussing, name calling and will even hurt them physically.  He has targeted several other kids, especially his younger brothers and physically and emotionally abused them.

He will say the meanest things and is just relentless if anyone does anything he doesn't like.

Quoting LizzieJane:

How old is your child? What has he/she done that you consider bullying? 



mommy259
by on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:13 AM

Why do you allow him to be a bully? Do you punish him when he is like that? Are you worried that sooner or klater he will be arrested for physically hurting someone?

momofhnd
by Nugget Nabber on Sep. 20, 2011 at 8:16 AM
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 Has he not ever had charges filed on him ? Or is he mainly a bully at home ?

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