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so i cheated ....

Posted by on Sep. 30, 2011 at 9:00 PM
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I guess Drs can't be wrong to some.... my dh was supposed to be sterile and obviously he's not because low and behold ... I'm almost 4 week pregnant. Well he doesn't think its possible and that I cheated on him. The only explanation he will even consider right now... I seem to be the only one who is excited for my miracle baby at all .... kinda took the fairy tale out of the entire first baby together feeling. I thought people would have been happier since he's always wanted kids and never could but it happened.... maybe I don't know him as well as I thought. Kinda burst my joyous bubble I was in earlier ... really cuts deep. I would never dream of cheating. Especially with him in chemo at the moment...
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alotta_fagina
by on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:05 PM

oh gosh. im SO SORRY, but CONGRATULATIONS!!  This too shall pass. When the baby is born and you do a DNA test he will feel like complete shit.

mel18
by on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:13 PM

 

Quoting Liyoness:

 

Quoting mel18:

 

 It just gets better and better doesn't it?  The one chick that was defending her said that op left the post because she was upset at being called a liar, now op is here stating that's not true, she went to bed.  And no sight of the girl that was pm'ing her.  Ppl are saying that they don't think its a lie or troll post because they "know" her.  I have personally been called a bitch twice now because I don't buy it, and didn't from the get go.  Now ppl are starting to realize.  I just thinks it amazing how someobody can be so blind and naive, and how some people stoop so low to namecall because they don't like what I say.  SMH.

Don't mind the name-calling. That JP chick just does that. She did it to me last night, too, in another post. I never remember names on here, but that one managed to earn herself a (bad) reputation with just a couple of replies. There's really no need for name-calling. Not even my children behave like that.

 Yeah...the one that really got me was the irish chick.  She really should be carefull what she says.  To sit there and call me a bitch and then say that I should be ashamed of myself?  Yeah, ok.  Then she decides to throw something in there about hoping I don't teach my children this way or some dumb shit.  Don't bring my kids into this....that just pissed me off.  But I'm over it now.  I said my peace to her and now I shall move on lol.

mel18
by on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:14 PM

 

Quoting madcrazymom:

Op is gone but purple writing is back. Hmmm same shit different day.

 Didn't I just say something about that just a little bit ago?  How is that NOT suspicious?

zebbyzebby06
by Sarah on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:14 PM
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KyMom24
by Bronze Member on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:15 PM
Ditto.

Quoting ChelseaLiz:

Okay so wait a minute...

You guys split up.

Then you got with your ex.

Then got pregnant and miscarried.

Then got back with your DH?

Then got pregant?

In all honesty can you blame him for thinking you cheated?


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artsygirl2010
by on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:21 PM

 i get it...i actually read it lol...

Quoting JP-StrongForTwo:

Im glad im not the only one that gets it. no one else seems to

Quoting razmatazthespaz:

 she doesn't have a 6 month old with her ex.

 She was with her current DH 8 months ago. thay split up for awhile and she got back with her ex. got pregnant and miscarried. but got back with her now DH after she realized how much of a mistake getting with her ex was

 that's not cheating......

Quoting madcrazymom:

It still doesn't add up, 6 month old baby with ex, yet your been with dh 9 months, yet you were pregnant 4 months ago. We are not stupid. You cheated on dh, or you didn't. Yet I still believe its all bullshit.

 


 

artsygirl2010
by on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:23 PM

 i read in a back reply that you said you stayed up til 3am searching for things the op said..you really did that? that seems really stalker like. creepy if you ask me.

Quoting ChAoTic_BliSs:

Well when you tell everyone you have been WITH your husband for 8 mths prior to a marriage that barely happened, claim you didn't sleep with him until the marriage and have other posts stating you mc'd in June.....it's not unheard of to think she cheated...

Quoting JP-StrongForTwo:

Im glad im not the only one that gets it. no one else seems to

Quoting razmatazthespaz:

 she doesn't have a 6 month old with her ex.

 She was with her current DH 8 months ago. thay split up for awhile and she got back with her ex. got pregnant and miscarried. but got back with her now DH after she realized how much of a mistake getting with her ex was

 that's not cheating......

Quoting madcrazymom:

It still doesn't add up, 6 month old baby with ex, yet your been with dh 9 months, yet you were pregnant 4 months ago. We are not stupid. You cheated on dh, or you didn't. Yet I still believe its all bullshit.

 



 

mel18
by on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:23 PM

 

Quoting madcrazymom:

She's trying to come up with another lie, give her a minute.

 This seriously made me lol

crazymeanmom
by Bronze Member on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:27 PM
My brother's wife got pregnant while he was on chemo and yes the twins were his. They look exactly like him. Without a doubt!
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Amybelle
by Ruby Member on Oct. 1, 2011 at 1:28 PM

Does anyone else hear the Theme Music from 'Days of Our Lives'??   "...........like sands through the hourglass.........."

lol

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