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I am curious, how many women have never had an orgasm? Is it just during sex or just never had one ever?

How do you feel about that?

What do you think it takes to have one? And what do you feel maybe preventing some women from having them?
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by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 4:05 PM
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celestegood
by Platinum Member on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:29 PM

My bff has never had one.  She divorced her dh and he was her first.  They were married for 38 years.  I felt (and still feel) so bad for her. 

 

DavidsMyLove
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:31 PM
That is tragic


Quoting celestegood:

My bff has never had one.  She divorced her dh and he was her first.  They were married for 38 years.  I felt (and still feel) so bad for her. 


 


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Survivor6388
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:33 PM

It grosses me out... seriously. I can't...

Just no.... I don't even like having to wash myself there...

I still do it but I don't like it.

Quoting DavidsMyLove:

You don't masturbate?!... there is your problem. Go play with yourself asap. How can you teach a man to get you off if you do not know how to get yourself off.




Quoting Survivor6388:

No. i don't ummm...

Yeah just no.

Quoting DavidsMyLove:

Alrighty. Never by yourself either?





Quoting Survivor6388:

LOL I don't think it ever will... so I'm good with just enjoying what we do have.

Quoting DavidsMyLove:

It would bother you if you finally had one. You would become a crazed nympho. Lol








Quoting Survivor6388:

I have never either....

Doesn't really bother me. I still enjoy sex.










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iwanabemomie
by Silver Member on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:35 PM
Ive only had 1 and that was while watching porn.......5 YEARS AGO

That was embarrasing to admit
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masonmomma
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:37 PM
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If you can't have one during intercourse .... CLITORIS! Lol. I feel so bad for y'all! Dh or I will "stimulate " that area during intercourse and I get off atleast once everytime. Do not very many women do this? I honestly thought everyone did ... the majority of women can't get off without direct clitoral stimulation.
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iwanabemomie
by Silver Member on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:38 PM
Not me lol


Quoting masonmomma:

If you can't have one during intercourse .... CLITORIS! Lol. I feel so bad for y'all! Dh or I will "stimulate " that area during intercourse and I get off atleast once everytime. Do not very many women do this? I honestly thought everyone did ... the majority of women can't get off without direct clitoral stimulation.

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masonmomma
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:39 PM
Bumping this because it is that important!!! Some women aren't comfortable masturbating but if you work past it and learn what you like you WONT regret it!!!

Quoting DavidsMyLove:

You don't masturbate?!... there is your problem. Go play with yourself asap. How can you teach a man to get you off if you do not know how to get yourself off.








Quoting Survivor6388:

No. i don't ummm...

Yeah just no.

Quoting DavidsMyLove:

Alrighty. Never by yourself either?








Quoting Survivor6388:

LOL I don't think it ever will... so I'm good with just enjoying what we do have.

Quoting DavidsMyLove:

It would bother you if you finally had one. You would become a crazed nympho. Lol











Quoting Survivor6388:

I have never either....

Doesn't really bother me. I still enjoy sex.











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YouLoseIWin
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:40 PM
I would die if I've never had an orgasm. My thing now is how many can I get before I'm too tired to go on, lol!
masonmomma
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:48 PM
TRY IT!!!! lol
If I'm in a position that dh can reach it he will while we... if not then I reach down there. I've gotten off twice without it but even then it was on top and your clit rubs so still stimulated in that area. I recommend doing yourself the first few times to see what you like then teaching it to your SO. My dh says it doesn't get in his way or anything so... and its intense!!! Like room spinning intense! Not like as if I was ONLY playing with the clit. Kwim. Way tmi!!! But I hope my tmi helps someone!


Quoting iwanabemomie:

Not me lol




Quoting masonmomma:

If you can't have one during intercourse .... CLITORIS! Lol. I feel so bad for y'all! Dh or I will "stimulate " that area during intercourse and I get off atleast once everytime. Do not very many women do this? I honestly thought everyone did ... the majority of women can't get off without direct clitoral stimulation.

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GreenAndLean
by on Oct. 3, 2011 at 6:49 PM
I don't want to be TMI

But when we have sex I also have to do things to myself to get off but it makes it so much better anyways

I would advise women who haven't been able to orgasm to touch themselves during sex it works
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