My boyfriend and I live together. We have 1 child together and he has a son from a previous relationship. My bf has unofficial joint custody. So his son and I are very close. I call his son my stepson, even though we are not legally married. His son calls me ma 2. Sometimes I will call my boyfriend my husband but usually just bf. I feel like I'm lying if I refer to him as husband so usually say boyfriend, but I feel he is more than that. We are much more than bf and gf. He wants to get married but I don't. I am not interested in getting legally married. I wish there was a term to describe the type of relationship we have but I may have to make up my own word. I'm not asking for advice, but am wondering what women in similar situations call their live in bfs.
"If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything." ~ Malcolm X
on Oct. 16, 2011 at 1:52 AM