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Instead of fighting for unborn babies...

Posted by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:21 AM
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Lets fight for the ones alive that are getting abused & neglected.


And for the ones saying adoption, have you been through that process? Its emotional, its more easier said than done. I know about this because I almost gave DD2 up.

Its their choice not mine or yours.

This probably won't sit well with some of yous guys, but oh well.
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ArianasMama2007
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:23 AM
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Agreed 200%
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laranadtony
by Emerald Member on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:23 AM
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 They don't give a SHIT about you once you are born!

heartnhidin
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:23 AM


Quoting ArianasMama2007:

Agreed 200%
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Tammi4
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:24 AM
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Why are unborn babies less important? I say fight for them all! A life is a life whether it has been born or not.
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.lovemygirls.
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:25 AM
Exactly.


Quoting laranadtony:

 They don't give a SHIT about you once you are born!


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HouseKatof2
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:27 AM
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Naegore
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:29 AM


Quoting Tammi4:

Why are unborn babies less important? I say fight for them all! A life is a life whether it has been born or not.
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ProudMama_2010
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:30 AM
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If its not born yet, its not a baby. its a fetus.

Its not less important. The whole arguement has nothing to do with if its less important or not. Its not like all of us pro-choicers think that a fetus is any less important than the child it would eventually become. The basis behind the whole pro choice thing, is that it is a womans right to choose what happens to her body, and her life. If she wants that fetus to grow into a child, great. If she can't handle adoption  and she just wants another method to prevent an unwanted parenthood - then she can go get an abortion.

It seems cold and cruel, but in reality, I'd rather see the girl who is a horrible mother get an abortion than have another kid. I'd rather see a woman who is in an abusive relationship with her partner abort than bring a child into the world who might very well die at the hands of her SO. A million different scenarios play out in my head, and in each one of them, adoption would be a nice alternative, but there are already tons of kids out there up for adoption and only about 50% of them even have a chance of being adopted.

Quoting Tammi4:

Why are unborn babies less important? I say fight for them all! A life is a life whether it has been born or not.


Lilcountrygrl86
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:33 AM
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 I agree, Ilegalizing abortion is just gonna make the number of abused/neglected/murdered children skyrocket =( And that right there is sad...

Tammi4
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 2:33 AM
I disagree with you. There are other alternatives to all those situations you've described.


Quoting ProudMama_2010:

If its not born yet, its not a baby. its a fetus.

Its not less important. The whole arguement has nothing to do with if its less important or not. Its not like all of us pro-choicers think that a fetus is any less important than the child it would eventually become. The basis behind the whole pro choice thing, is that it is a womans right to choose what happens to her body, and her life. If she wants that fetus to grow into a child, great. If she can't handle adoption  and she just wants another method to prevent an unwanted parenthood - then she can go get an abortion.

It seems cold and cruel, but in reality, I'd rather see the girl who is a horrible mother get an abortion than have another kid. I'd rather see a woman who is in an abusive relationship with her partner abort than bring a child into the world who might very well die at the hands of her SO. A million different scenarios play out in my head, and in each one of them, adoption would be a nice alternative, but there are already tons of kids out there up for adoption and only about 50% of them even have a chance of being adopted.

Quoting Tammi4:

Why are unborn babies less important? I say fight for them all! A life is a life whether it has been born or not.



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