12/9 UPDATE * Totally creeped out. I don't even wanna go home now.
12/09
Hey ladies. First I want to say thanks to those of you who have reached out to me. There are so many, and I am working on a response to everyone, but I really honestly and truly appreciate the support.
I've been a wreck lately. Monday was awful. As usual, I walked out monday to get the paper. On my door step, there was a dead cat that had its belly sliced open. Ugh, I'm still sick just thinking about it. There were also 3 dead black birds in the bed of my truck.
I called the cops of course. A little good news. We got a description of a vehicle. My neighbor reported seeing a black older model jeep around 6am.
I heard back yesterday that the cat was microchipped, so the cops are now searching in the neighborhood the cat was from. I'm hoping this a hole was stupid enough to take a cat from his own neighborhood, but I feel awful for the owner. :(
Worst part is my DD saw the cat. She is still asking questions about it and I just don't know what to say.
It's hard, but I feel like the cops have something to go on now.
We shut off our cable and Internet to put aside some money to make the trip to my mothers. If all goes well, we'll be with her in about a week. So say a prayer that nothing gets in the way. I just wanna be somewhere we can relax!!
Ill keep you all updated!
12/5 if anyone really doesn't mind listening to me whine, please pm me and we can exchange numbers to call or text... I really need someone.
12/5
It had been pretty quite and normal all weekend. This morning is not so great. I'm sick, completely sick, I can't take this anymore. I am a wreck, my finances are a wreck, it's tearing me and my husband apart.
I'm not up or details right now, but I could really use someone to talk to.
11/29
Not a good update.
When dh was leaving for work this morning he discovered that the security camera we had installed outside was destroyed. It was ripped down and smashed.
The windshield of my truck was hit with something, police think it may have been the camera. It has giant cracks across it.
It's gonna have to be replaced... We are also going to have to pay for the camera. :( we were renting the equipment..,
I'm so angry. I can't stop crying. This guy is destroying our lives. He has now succeeded in ruining Christmas for my babies.
I just don't get it. The ONE night I take something to help me sleep, is the night this happens. I usually hear everything!! I nor dh heard a thing.
I just don't even know what to do anymore. I'm emotionally spent. I feel like I'm just gonna lose it. I just want to live life in peace. :(
11/28
Not much to update on. I got an anonymous letter in the mail last Wednesday, it was a photograph of a rainbow... Nothing else has gone on. Dh has been home since wednesday afternoon though.
He left for work a bit ago. I didn't sleep well at all last night thinking of him not being here. I just hope everything stays calm.
11/21 -
It was a pretty uneventful weekend. DH was home all weekend, and nothing unusual went on. That's the good news.
Bad news, my mom called me on Saturday to tell me that her check wasn't what she thought it would be, so we aren't leaving today.
I'm so stressed. I'm exhausted. I feel like I haven't slept at all. When I do sleep, I jump at every noise, and even though my babies are in my room with me, I can't help but get up a billion times to check on them.
Dh just left for work, so im sitting up, gun in hand. Police are still doing their rounds... I'm not sure what to do anymore. I feel like a prisoner of fear.
I'm trying to hold it together, but I feel like I'm about to lose it. The emotional toll is more than I can bare, and all of the other stresses, the fear, the financials, that this asshole has caused just sucks.
Sorry I went off i a rant.... I just have so much built up. :(
11/18...More info update
So this morning when Dh left, I had him do a check of the outside again, and had him do the neighborhood drive thing again. Everything was fine. He left at 5:45. I went outside aroun 7:20ish to pick up the paper, when I saw the tires. I ran back inside, locked the doors, armed the alarm ,called the police, and sat with gun in hand until they got there about 8 mins. They checked things out, looked around and notices that the screen to my daughter's window looks like it had been messed with. They talked with a few neighbor's, but nobody saw anythjnh. then waited with me while I got the kids up and ready, and a bag packed. My truck is my only vehicle. So they let us ride in the cop car to the police station to wait for DH to get there.
We talked about everything, and they agreed to have someone in my neighborhood as much as possible, but said there isn't a whole lot they can do, without a positive ID. When I called the cops the first time, when he came to my door. Apparently, the officer DID locate him, but just asked him to leave the neighborhood, didn't ask for ID or anything!!!!
So Dh and I decided that the kids and I are going to go and stay with my mom for a while, but can't go until Monday. DH is staying home because of work, which still scares me. The cops will be watching our house and the neighborhood. We called sudden link, which is who we have our security syst through, and someone will be out tomorrow to set up outdoor cameras. They will also be giving dh a panic button.
The insurance will not pay for the tires. :( they did pay to have the truck towed to the tire place, where we I am now. $280 a piece!!! Dang custom rims. Why now?? Right before the holidays... It makes me sick thinking about it.
I don't even know what to feel right now. I'm sad for my kids... Scared... I just want to cry. I'm angry, I'm just so angry!!!
I'm a low key person. I don't go out much, I don't talk to random people, I'm shy, I keep to myself. Why would someone do this to me?? I don't understand. These are my worst fears coming true!!!
I'll update with anything else... :(
**update 11/18***
My back tires were slashed!!!!
I'll give more info later....
****update****
I came home. My babies were getting really cranky, and I didn't want to keep them out any longer. I called the PD and asked to them meet me at home. Everything checked out fine, and they will be driving around the neighborhood.
So we are all in the living room, security system armed,Gun easily accessible ( to me, babies can't get to it)
************************ Me and my dd3 and ds1 were headed home from getting the tires rotated on the truck. I decides to stop by the mailbox, and them decided to let the kids play at the playground (right near the mailbox). Well, I noticed a black pickup truck that parked across the street. With a man sitting inside, just watching us. I tried to ignore it, but I was aleady feeling creeped out, so I grabbed the kids and put them in the truck, I jumped I. And locked the doors while I strapped them in. When I looked up the man had binoculars pointed straight at us. So I hurried jumped in, and started to drive off. He followed. I drove around a bit, then turned off to my house, he followed. So I passe up my house, I didn't want to turn in, and stopped a few blocks down in front of a neighbor's house. He then passed by me, slowed down a little bit, waved.
I instantly recognize him. It is the man that I called the cops on last week. Last week, He came by my house mid day, saying he was pest control and was giving free estimates. He was pretty pushy about coming inside, but I was very adamant, and asked him to leave several times after he could not give me a business card. After he left that day, I immediately looked up the name of the company he said he worked for. It doesn't exist in my town.
I called the cops again, and gave them a description of the vehicle, which did not have plates, it only had the dealer name tags on it, and now I am so afraid to go home. so we are wandering aimlessly around our grocery store.
Hey ladies. First I want to say thanks to those of you who have reached out to me. There are so many, and I am working on a response to everyone, but I really honestly and truly appreciate the support.
I've been a wreck lately. Monday was awful. As usual, I walked out monday to get the paper. On my door step, there was a dead cat that had its belly sliced open. Ugh, I'm still sick just thinking about it. There were also 3 dead black birds in the bed of my truck.
I called the cops of course. A little good news. We got a description of a vehicle. My neighbor reported seeing a black older model jeep around 6am.
I heard back yesterday that the cat was microchipped, so the cops are now searching in the neighborhood the cat was from. I'm hoping this a hole was stupid enough to take a cat from his own neighborhood, but I feel awful for the owner. :(
Worst part is my DD saw the cat. She is still asking questions about it and I just don't know what to say.
It's hard, but I feel like the cops have something to go on now.
We shut off our cable and Internet to put aside some money to make the trip to my mothers. If all goes well, we'll be with her in about a week. So say a prayer that nothing gets in the way. I just wanna be somewhere we can relax!!
Ill keep you all updated!
12/5 if anyone really doesn't mind listening to me whine, please pm me and we can exchange numbers to call or text... I really need someone.
12/5
It had been pretty quite and normal all weekend. This morning is not so great. I'm sick, completely sick, I can't take this anymore. I am a wreck, my finances are a wreck, it's tearing me and my husband apart.
I'm not up or details right now, but I could really use someone to talk to.
11/29
Not a good update.
When dh was leaving for work this morning he discovered that the security camera we had installed outside was destroyed. It was ripped down and smashed.
The windshield of my truck was hit with something, police think it may have been the camera. It has giant cracks across it.
It's gonna have to be replaced... We are also going to have to pay for the camera. :( we were renting the equipment..,
I'm so angry. I can't stop crying. This guy is destroying our lives. He has now succeeded in ruining Christmas for my babies.
I just don't get it. The ONE night I take something to help me sleep, is the night this happens. I usually hear everything!! I nor dh heard a thing.
I just don't even know what to do anymore. I'm emotionally spent. I feel like I'm just gonna lose it. I just want to live life in peace. :(
11/28
Not much to update on. I got an anonymous letter in the mail last Wednesday, it was a photograph of a rainbow... Nothing else has gone on. Dh has been home since wednesday afternoon though.
He left for work a bit ago. I didn't sleep well at all last night thinking of him not being here. I just hope everything stays calm.
11/21 -
It was a pretty uneventful weekend. DH was home all weekend, and nothing unusual went on. That's the good news.
Bad news, my mom called me on Saturday to tell me that her check wasn't what she thought it would be, so we aren't leaving today.
I'm so stressed. I'm exhausted. I feel like I haven't slept at all. When I do sleep, I jump at every noise, and even though my babies are in my room with me, I can't help but get up a billion times to check on them.
Dh just left for work, so im sitting up, gun in hand. Police are still doing their rounds... I'm not sure what to do anymore. I feel like a prisoner of fear.
I'm trying to hold it together, but I feel like I'm about to lose it. The emotional toll is more than I can bare, and all of the other stresses, the fear, the financials, that this asshole has caused just sucks.
Sorry I went off i a rant.... I just have so much built up. :(
11/18...More info update
So this morning when Dh left, I had him do a check of the outside again, and had him do the neighborhood drive thing again. Everything was fine. He left at 5:45. I went outside aroun 7:20ish to pick up the paper, when I saw the tires. I ran back inside, locked the doors, armed the alarm ,called the police, and sat with gun in hand until they got there about 8 mins. They checked things out, looked around and notices that the screen to my daughter's window looks like it had been messed with. They talked with a few neighbor's, but nobody saw anythjnh. then waited with me while I got the kids up and ready, and a bag packed. My truck is my only vehicle. So they let us ride in the cop car to the police station to wait for DH to get there.
We talked about everything, and they agreed to have someone in my neighborhood as much as possible, but said there isn't a whole lot they can do, without a positive ID. When I called the cops the first time, when he came to my door. Apparently, the officer DID locate him, but just asked him to leave the neighborhood, didn't ask for ID or anything!!!!
So Dh and I decided that the kids and I are going to go and stay with my mom for a while, but can't go until Monday. DH is staying home because of work, which still scares me. The cops will be watching our house and the neighborhood. We called sudden link, which is who we have our security syst through, and someone will be out tomorrow to set up outdoor cameras. They will also be giving dh a panic button.
The insurance will not pay for the tires. :( they did pay to have the truck towed to the tire place, where we I am now. $280 a piece!!! Dang custom rims. Why now?? Right before the holidays... It makes me sick thinking about it.
I don't even know what to feel right now. I'm sad for my kids... Scared... I just want to cry. I'm angry, I'm just so angry!!!
I'm a low key person. I don't go out much, I don't talk to random people, I'm shy, I keep to myself. Why would someone do this to me?? I don't understand. These are my worst fears coming true!!!
I'll update with anything else... :(
**update 11/18***
My back tires were slashed!!!!
I'll give more info later....
****update****
I came home. My babies were getting really cranky, and I didn't want to keep them out any longer. I called the PD and asked to them meet me at home. Everything checked out fine, and they will be driving around the neighborhood.
So we are all in the living room, security system armed,Gun easily accessible ( to me, babies can't get to it)
************************ Me and my dd3 and ds1 were headed home from getting the tires rotated on the truck. I decides to stop by the mailbox, and them decided to let the kids play at the playground (right near the mailbox). Well, I noticed a black pickup truck that parked across the street. With a man sitting inside, just watching us. I tried to ignore it, but I was aleady feeling creeped out, so I grabbed the kids and put them in the truck, I jumped I. And locked the doors while I strapped them in. When I looked up the man had binoculars pointed straight at us. So I hurried jumped in, and started to drive off. He followed. I drove around a bit, then turned off to my house, he followed. So I passe up my house, I didn't want to turn in, and stopped a few blocks down in front of a neighbor's house. He then passed by me, slowed down a little bit, waved.
I instantly recognize him. It is the man that I called the cops on last week. Last week, He came by my house mid day, saying he was pest control and was giving free estimates. He was pretty pushy about coming inside, but I was very adamant, and asked him to leave several times after he could not give me a business card. After he left that day, I immediately looked up the name of the company he said he worked for. It doesn't exist in my town.
I called the cops again, and gave them a description of the vehicle, which did not have plates, it only had the dealer name tags on it, and now I am so afraid to go home. so we are wandering aimlessly around our grocery store.
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Thats creepy!! Have you heard back from the police?? Id stay with a friend or family if able..
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on Nov. 16, 2011 at 2:21 PM
omg!! that would freak me out too! if i were you id get a collapsible baton or some pepper spray to keep on me..well actually if i were you id have a little gun on me but not everyone is comfy with that. i would ask if the cops can send a patrol car around every so often to keep an eye on the house too!
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You have some damn good instincts girl. Keep using them and stay safe.
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While your at the store call the cops. They will follow you home and maybe follow up with watching your home. GL
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Is it just me, or... ?
- o0o_Alleigh_o0o
on Nov. 16, 2011 at 2:14 PM