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if you allow your children to see their parents naked... (with edit... THIS ISN'T ABOUT STRANGERS!!)

Posted by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:42 PM
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How do you explain that although its acceptable to see mommy and/or daddy naked, other people shouldn't expose themselves to them. Or are you alright with other adults flashing your children?



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Sexual abuse can include fondling, genital exposure, intimate kissing, forced masturbation oral, penile or digital penetration of the mouth, vagina or anus. Child prostitution, pornography and cult (or "ritual") abuse are specific activities also included in the definition.1 Incest is sexual abuse where the offender is a family member.


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Most children are abused by someone they know and trust, although boys are more likely than girls to be abused outside of the family.2,5 A study in three states found 96 percent of reported rape survivors under age 12 knew the attacker. Four percent of the offenders were strangers, 20 percent were fathers 16 percent were relatives and 50 percent were acquaintances or friends. Among women 18 or older, 12 percent were raped by a family member, 33 percent by a stranger and 55 percent by an acquaintance.24

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MeandMyBabes
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:43 PM
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A child seeing a parent without clothing is big leap from a someone else flashing children. 

starmoonmom
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:44 PM
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Are you serious? There is a difference between walking to the laundry room to get clothes and exposing or flashing. Get real

CheyanneW
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:45 PM
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I don't remember my parents ever telling me that seeing other adults naked was bad I just knew.

Mamaof3and1tobe
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:45 PM
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Ummm... What they said above ^
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GreenBurrito
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:45 PM
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Nice reach.

Are you comparing strangers body parts to childrens parents body parts? That body's SHOULD be taboo?
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prinzesstephi
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:46 PM
I agree, but if you don't have a problem with your children seeing adults in your home naked (them walking in and not being corrected or changing in front of them) how do you explain the difference?

Quoting MeandMyBabes:

A child seeing a parent without clothing is big leap from a someone else flashing children. 

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AF2011
by Gold Member on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:46 PM

i think they would know the difference?

prinzesstephi
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:47 PM
You're telling me that a three year old understands that? I understand it, but I'm an adult.

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Nice reach.



Are you comparing strangers body parts to childrens parents body parts? That body's SHOULD be taboo?

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.mysweetmelissa
by on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:47 PM
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*facepalm*
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lil_mama06
by Brian's Lil Vixen on Nov. 28, 2011 at 6:47 PM
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Nobody better be showing their penises or vagina's to my kids...But takes all kinds i guess....

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