Ok I tried to keep this to myself but I can't, I'm really upset
I got a call from my sons school 10 minutes before his bus arrived.
There were two girls in his class tossing around bad words. They weren't originally aimed at him but at everyone they felt like speaking to. When he told them that those were "Bad words" and that "Only mean people say them."
They were calling other kids in a class F***ing N*gger$
When he continued to argue with him they started to pick on him directly. Both these girls are 3 yrs old.
Both are also mixed race.
One girl rides the bus home with him and continued to call him, the bus driver and other kids on the bus the same names. They (the bus driver and aid) reported her behavior to both ME, and the girls mother.
My son is upset, he considered these kids his 'friends' and now he thinks girls are bad (except his Jenna). After telling me they hurt his feelings he's refused to talk about it. The school assures me they'll be talking to the kids about bad words and that they do not use them at school. If the incident happens again they girls will be suspended from classes for a week (4days) and sent to different classrooms.
One of them is the same child that called me a "fucking bitch" for taking her boots from her and gave them to her Mom after she tried to run off with them. (Her mom is disabled)