My DD's ex-friend is a SLUT!!! (kinda long) *PIOG* **UPDATE**

[poohlover515]

Well, let me rephrase, she's a very promiscuous little girl! She and my DD are the same age, 13, and used to be friends until the girl, we'll call her Tink, started 'dating' one of my DDs friend, and turned that friend against my DD by lying about a ton of things! But thats neither here nor there! Really, my issue is with the girl and the way she portrays herself. As I stated earlier, she's only 13, and has been sexually involved with at least 3 boys that I know of in the last 6 months. She brags about it on FB, and through texts, and has sent naked pictures of herself to all of these boys, including my 15 yr old son! Now, I'm not sure if her parents have any clue as to whats going on but as a mother, I feel like I should say something. But how do you tell someone that you don't know that their daughter is 1) sexually active and 2) having sex with multiple boys??? I mean, I don't even know her parents, she doesn't go to the same school as my kids or the other boys, but all the boys are friends, so they're kinda just passing her along! I honestly feel bad for her, what makes a 13 yr old girl think she has to use her body to get a boy to like her! I'm at a loss, what do I do here?!?!?

**UPDATE**
So over the weekend, I finally found out where the little girl lived and went over there with my son and his cell phone. (I didn't even bring copies FB messages since kids like to  brag and talk mess on there anyway) Apparently, the mom already knew about her behavior, and was just like okay with it, she said that she has been aware of the problem for quite some time but didn't really know how to handle it. She also said that the more she trys to "punish her" the more she acts out. I'm not sure what her idea of punishment is, but my kid sure as heck wouldn't have access to a computer, yet alone a cell phone while on punishment. I also found out that she has already been in legal trouble for sending pictures of herself to boys, and that another boy, I don't know who, was also in trouble for possession of the pictures. I told her mom that I wouldn't go to the cops THIS TIME, but if she contacts my son again, I will! The whole situation is too much for me so, I plan on keeping my kids as far away from this as I can, and hopefully she gets this little girl some kind of help

[RobinBright]

I think calling a 13 year old child a slut is pretty sad.  She's a kid.  You're an adult; surely you can describe behaviors and express concern without namecalling, right?

[chickensmommy]

Sadly, parents may be the very reason she's acting out like this :(

[poohlover515]

Yeah, I just went for the "WOW" factor in the title, that's why I called her promiscuous in the actual post.

Quoting RobinBright:

I think calling a 13 year old child a slut is pretty sad.  She's a kid.  You're an adult; surely you can describe behaviors and express concern without namecalling, right?

 

[lovebeingmrs]

I wouldn't be calling her a slut, she could be thinking this is a way to make boys like her. I would let my son and his friends know keeping the pictures and sending can land them in jail and ruin the rest of their lives. That being said how can not meet her parents if your dd is/was her best friend?

[RobinBright]

Eh, it reads as more "I'm calling a kid names" rather than "Wow read my post."

Tomato, tomahto.

Quoting poohlover515:

Yeah, I just went for the "WOW" factor in the title, that's why I called her promiscuous in the actual post.

Quoting RobinBright:

I think calling a 13 year old child a slut is pretty sad.  She's a kid.  You're an adult; surely you can describe behaviors and express concern without namecalling, right?

 

[cLanief]

ummm you do know... Everyone that girl sends a nekkid pic to is in the possession of child porn and can be arrested?

[emilysmom8]

 There are other ways to get the "Wow" factor besides calling a little girl a "slut"! I would kill someone if they called my daughter a sult!  Now for your post I dont know that I would tell her parents about the sex, but I would tell them she sent your son a naked pic of herself

Quoting poohlover515:

Yeah, I just went for the "WOW" factor in the title, that's why I called her promiscuous in the actual post.

Quoting RobinBright:

I think calling a 13 year old child a slut is pretty sad.  She's a kid.  You're an adult; surely you can describe behaviors and express concern without namecalling, right?

 

 

[WendyJR]

Well you can go about it by telling them she sent your son naked pictures. He could get in serious trouble for possessing those pictures if caught. So you tell them that you want their daughter to stop sexually harassing your son?

[mom2cheesebug]

The parents probably don't know. I would text them the naked picture of her that your son got. Say hey, your DD just sent this to my 15 yr old and about 3 other guys! Just a heads up!

[sarah824]

 I'm curious... Did your son sleep with her? I think you may have bigger fish to fry if so...I would worry more about YOUR 15 year old instead of someone else's 13 year old.