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Posted by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:37 AM
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Was about 11 or 12 and she told you she didn't want to wear underwear anymore, would you flip on her?
I don't wear underwear often. They're uncomfortable. Anyway. I remember when I was that age and my mom (she was weird) noticed I never had dirty underwear in the hamper lol, and she asked me why. She flipped on me when I told her.
Was that a normal reaction? I don't see as how I would flip on my dd.
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graciesmom6206
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:40 AM
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I wouldn't flip out at her but I would try to find something that she could wear underneath instead, like boycut shorts or something. Not wearing anything wouldn't be an option at that age.
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Msgme
by Platinum Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:40 AM

I wouldnt flip out,  I would ask why and see if it had something to do with the material My only concern would  be during her time of the month.

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by Little Mac on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:40 AM

 My son used to love to go commando until I bought him boxers LOL.  I am not sure how I would feel about that though. I don't think I could force her to wear panties.  I have a friend who never wears panties.  She hates them LOL.

SarahSue87
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:41 AM

No, some people just dont like to wear undies.  I mean I would rather she did, but if not, there would be times when she would have to, like when wearing a skirt or dress. 

WhitleyLyles
by ICareWhatYouThink on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:42 AM
She would probably be smart enough to realize you have to wear them then. Lol. I was

Quoting Msgme:

I wouldnt flip out,  I would ask why and see if it had something to do with the material My only concern would  be during her time of the month.

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whitleypittman
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:43 AM
Her choice.
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HayKay
by Jaye on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:44 AM
I just don't understand why it is such a big deal? Why would it matter if she wore underwear? Why is it so bad not to? Maybe I am the odd one.
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.Pagan.
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:44 AM

i would just make sure she wore some if shewere wearing a skirt or dress. my mom had a HUGE issue with g-strings but when i started cross country i told her i had to have them because regular underwear was ridiculous to run 3 miles in comfortably. she agreed thank god to that.

RobinBright
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:44 AM
As long as my kiddos are appropriately covered, I don't care what's under their clothes. My five year old only wears boxers, my three year old wears briefs or nothing. They both wear pants, and that's enough for me lol
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AHmom103
by Alexis on Feb. 6, 2012 at 8:45 AM
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 Same here.

Quoting graciesmom6206:

I wouldn't flip out at her but I would try to find something that she could wear underneath instead, like boycut shorts or something. Not wearing anything wouldn't be an option at that age.

 

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