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I have been feeling guilty about something.

Posted by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:01 PM
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Most of you know about the complicated relationship I have with my parents.
I was in wal-mart about two weeks ago and my mom happened to pass by us.
She went out of her way to come back and say hello. She said my kids looked like their daddy and asked when the baby is due.
Then she stood there and I could tell she thought we might talk some more. It was like she wanted me to say something :/
I smiled and then turned around and finished checking out and she walked away.
It felt so awkward :/
Anyway, since then I have felt like I probably hurt her feelings or something. Then another part of me doesn't even give a crap.
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shaedog3
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:03 PM

i dont know what the back story is, so im not sure why you didnt talk to her?

WhitleyLyles
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:04 PM
My dad molested me and she didn't care.

Quoting shaedog3:

i dont know what the back story is, so im not sure why you didnt talk to her?

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momma-flynn
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:05 PM
*hugs* I think it will probably be awkward for a while for yall.
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prenatalRN
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:06 PM

Until she made amends with me (and that might not be possible) screw her.

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

My dad molested me and she didn't care.

Quoting shaedog3:

i dont know what the back story is, so im not sure why you didnt talk to her?


Embers88
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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Well... I don't keep up with your history of complicated relationships with your parents, so I'm not sure if you should feel guilty or not. 

I can't imagine things being that bad between my mother and I... and we've had our issues. 


** OMG.. I just read where you said your dad molested you and she didn't care. Yep... wouldn't talk to my mother either. 

WhitleyLyles
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:07 PM
Well, up until that night she would hang up if I called even if it was to say Happy bday. She forbade my sisters to speak to me. She acted like I was the plague.

Quoting prenatalRN:

Until she made amends with me (and that might not be possible) screw her.


Quoting WhitleyLyles:

My dad molested me and she didn't care.


Quoting shaedog3:


i dont know what the back story is, so im not sure why you didnt talk to her?



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sweetcherry_59
by Platinum Member on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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Maybe she is trying to make amends?

WhitleyLyles
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:09 PM
I don't know what to do lol
Everytime I try to cope they pop back up.


Quoting momma-flynn:

*hugs* I think it will probably be awkward for a while for yall.
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shaedog3
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:09 PM

oh, well in that case, FUCK HER!!! i wouldnt even look twice at her.

(and sorry BTW )

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

My dad molested me and she didn't care.

Quoting shaedog3:

i dont know what the back story is, so im not sure why you didnt talk to her?


 

momma-flynn
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 9:10 PM
It's like a rollercoaster. Keep your guard up hun.

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

I don't know what to do lol

Everytime I try to cope they pop back up.




Quoting momma-flynn:

*hugs* I think it will probably be awkward for a while for yall.
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