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ladies! scared and need advice!!

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:28 PM
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Heres the story, 2 months ago i met a guy, randomly started talking in walmart exchanged numbers and started talking a lot, about 3 weeks ago we started "offically" dating i guess and things have been great between us.... BUT he is divorced, as am i and his ex is  off her GD rocker. she was dating someone i knew and got pregnant and had an abortion out of spite and she wont let my BF see their kids if he is dating me she makes threats all the time and says im not allowed around their kids (which even tho shes being ridiculous i will respect that!) so last week she called the police and got a restraining order saying he beat her and their 2 year old son and yesterday she sent me a fb message saying he cheated on her the whole time they were married and he is a man whore and stuff.... (i can post the emails if yall are interested...?)


so now bc i was married to someone that cheated on me i am kinda scared, i am really crazy about this guy and she told me a lot of stuff about his past but he had already told me all of it, which i feel is a good sign... but im having a hard time moving on past the drama and trusting him. Thoughts?

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:28 PM
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randomosityblog
by ♥Blogging Mom♥ on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:29 PM
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I'd run away.

Like yesterday.

QueenBof6
by Gold Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:32 PM
Ditto this.

Quoting randomosityblog:

I'd run away.

Like yesterday.

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ojac
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:33 PM
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I would run for the hills. It's only a three week relationship, and it's only going to get worse. Don't put yourself or your kids through the drama. And they don't arbitrarily hand out ROs, that would be enough for me.
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Mackenzie40
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:33 PM

I would move on.

christina0607
by Ruby Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:34 PM

For me thats way to much drama. I would walk away. 

Mandiii04
by Я ♥ России on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:37 PM
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Mrs.VanDeKamp
by Gold Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:38 PM

 well, i guess the thing is; she may just be psycho and is trying to scare yopu off, in which case, i feel sorry for her ex.

or she may be telling the truth and he is a big time man whore.

either way, i would never date a man with baggage. too complicated.

harpsichord
by i♥Дми́трий on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:38 PM
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You just described more drama and excitement than I've seen in the last 10 years.

Fuck.
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kemmerer411
by Gold Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:38 PM
Yep


Quoting randomosityblog:

I'd run away.

Like yesterday.


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3pippings
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2012 at 12:40 PM
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