Your kid is a disrespectful,rude little...

[Mommy2ZOEBETH]

Well not yours of course! Everyone on Cafemom has perfect kiddos :)

 But we have all encountered some incredibly rude,disrespectful and ill behaved children before.

Do you think that it is the parents fault they act like this?

*Not talking about children diagnosed with disorders that can affect their behavior.

[happinessforyou]

How else's fault would this be, if not the people raising them?

[RedRozeMom]

 If the parent does nothing to correct that behavior, then yes it's the parent's fault.

[Lilcountrygrl86]

For the most part yes, but there are some kids that are just rebellious and hard to handle.

[jessicac3656]

yes for instance my niece is a brat she is 9 and she goes around telling her mother bitch me bitch yells at her mother go to hell fuck u all that stuff she is very disrespectful and i delt with it for 3 years without saing anything and the other day she was yelling at her grandfather and i snapped i told her she does not act like that to him he is her grandpa and she better start treating him like it

[AjsMom0508]

A lot of the times it is the fault of the parents.  There are some kids though that it doesn't matter what you do to teach them manners they refuse to use them.  Those are the kids that I want to strangle (not literally of course but they put me over the edge).

[Piskie]

My DD can be loud, she's got a short attention span and is constantly wanting to learn about everything. I'm sure some people consider that rude that she's constantly talking, but I like it, i always answer her and teach.

Kids are rude sometime, how else do they learn to be polite? Sometimes one families rules and expectations are considered rude by another. There are few parents who simply can't be bothered.

[mom_dl6]

BUMP!

[BabyDamien13107]

Sometimes it is the parent's fault. However, sometimes kids are just being kids and some adults see it as kids being brats or misbehaving.

[nikki32230]

My niece is this kid only worse and yes, at least in her case, it is all my brothers and XSILs fault.

[parentalrights1]

My kid is just naturally good. I can't help but feel sad for the parents when their kid acts up because I imagine they probably don't always know what to do right off the bat or could be working on the issue at home and it just hasn't been fixed yet.

One example of a kid who wasn't like SUPER monstrous, but not great either. When I was working at a fast food restaurant understaffed, I was instructed by the manager "Only take three orders at a time, fill them and deliver to the customer before taking the next one" It sounds like it would take forever, but the cooks were pretty good so it really doesn't.

Well some little boy was next in line with his mom and I told them "just a moment" and turned to bag an order real quick and the boy was like "URRRRGHHHHHHH! WHY DID YOU TAKE THEIR ORDER AND NOT USSSSSSSSS" I was like 0_o and the poor mom looked embarrassed. She was like, "Oh.. *nervous chuckle* he's hungry..." Most people would be mad she didn't reprimand him but I understand she was probably caught off guard and stunned in the moment so I wasn't mad at her.