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TELLING BEFORE THE END OF FIRST TRIMESTER?

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:17 AM
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Have you ever broke the 3 month rule with pregnancy and tell people before the first trimester was up?  The one time I did and even bought a car seat, I miscarried.  I will not be making that mistake again.

What about you?

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:17 AM
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MyNameIsRAVEN
by Gold Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:18 AM
I broke the 3 month rule with all three......sorry about your loss :0(
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starmoonmom
by Gold Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:19 AM
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I never waited, the news was out as soon as we knew. 

RaynesMommy07
by Star on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:19 AM
I did with all three. 1 & 2 were fine, but we miscarried baby #3. So I won't be telling anyone other than DF until after the 1st trimester the next time we get pregnant.
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Katenemsmom
by Natalie on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:19 AM
Yes. We finally started telling people when I was ten weeks. I miscarried one day shy of 12 weeks.
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kr3918
by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:20 AM
I did only those who needed to know. However with everyone else we waited.
We had 3 miscarriages prior to this.
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MalibuMommy
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:20 AM

I didn't find out I was pregnant untill the second trimester with both of my kids, so no, i didn't

mrstheriault
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:22 AM
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i did tell. it's my first. i needed the support no matter what the end and want the people in my life to know what's happening. i told everyone when i had a miscarriage too. it's been wonderful to have friends and family supporting me and hoping for the best

starryeyez23
by Leighsa on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:23 AM
I told everyone as soon as as knew.
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mama_2_jasper
by Gold Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:24 AM
I told at 11 weeks. My coworker was pregnant too and told everyone at 5 weeks. I just saw her today and she was asking about my pregnancy and how l was doing. Then I asked her, she tOld me she miscarried at 8 weeks. I felt so bad for her. Because she had already tOld everyone at work and me and a different coworker are pregnant. But that's why I waited as long as I did. I'm still scared that something will happen, so I don't talk about my pregnancy much yet.
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LiesLiesLies
by Ruby Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 2:25 AM
I'm sorry to hear:(

It was Christmas eve when I tested...so we were with family.

In my family you can't hide a damn thing. Lol!
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