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When I die..

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:52 PM
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I've laid out pretty specific plans for when I pass - have you?

I want to be cremated - in a cardboard box - with no jewlery or expensive clothes.

I want my ashes in an inexpensive container

I'd like a memorial held at someones home

I would like this song played specifically 

but have a number of other songs lined up to be played as well.


After the memorial - my ashes are to be scattered some where they feel is appropriate. 


What about you?

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:52 PM
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kathislove80
by Katherine on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:53 PM
Not at all. I know I want to be cremated, but I suppose I should put that wish into writing.
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blsdbyangel07
by Cuppycake on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:53 PM
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Eh, no.  That's a morbid thought for me.  I have a fear of dying.  I know CRAZY because it's going to happen whether I want it to or not.  But I literally almost have an anxiety attack while thinking about it.  :l

chickensmommy
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:53 PM
I'm gonna be buried in my family's plot
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MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:54 PM

DH knows to bury me in the groun, no box, no chemicals in me, no big deal.

3earthangels
by Platinum Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:54 PM
I want to be cremated with whatever funeral services my Kids deem reasonable. Then I want my ashes thrown into a river to travel to the ocean.
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FooLynRoo
by Emerald Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:55 PM

My husband too wants to be cremated but he wants his ashes mixed with our dogs ashes and he wanted to be kept in an urn in a place of rememberance.

FooLynRoo
by Emerald Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:55 PM


Quoting blsdbyangel07:

Eh, no.  That's a morbid thought for me.  I have a fear of dying.  I know CRAZY because it's going to happen whether I want it to or not.  But I literally almost have an anxiety attack while thinking about it.  :l

I deal with anxiety through micro management if you haven't noticed LOL


FooLynRoo
by Emerald Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:56 PM

There is to be no wake with my body embalbed and done up like a bad hooker.

I hate that.

LiesLiesLies
by Ruby Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:56 PM
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Yep. They are to bury me in a hot pink coffin.

I am to be buried in my gold sparkle heels and a white silk dress.

They are to deliver an envelope full of monopoly money to my bio parents. While driving my convertible Mercedes.

Like seriously. This is all in my will.

My (now) Mom gets my Louis Vuitton and clothing and shoes.

And then everything else goes to my DD.
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SarahLizyB
by Gold Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:56 PM
Yes I do. I want to be cemented with no ceremony and my ashes just thrown away. I want my family to spend as little as possible
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