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ruining the whole thing

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:20 AM
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My sister literally thinks she's always right. If you have a different opinion than her on something she takes it personally and will think that your opinion is wrong.
My mom and dad have been separated and divorced since I was 8. My mom has recently admitted some thoughts she had a few months ago about harming herself.
My dad called me and wanted some info on where and when she works so he could send flowers and candy to her on Valentine's day to brighten her day (probably her month) He wanted to send it anonymously so she didn't get the wrong idea. I found out when she was working but I didnt know where she worked so I enlisted the help of my sister. She thinks anonymous flowers are a terrible idea because of her experience in the flower industry. Not only did she not want to help, but she wanted me to tell my Dad not to do it. When I told her my Dad was going to do it anyway, she was pissed that she was "in on it " and wasn't interested in "keeping the secret " she said she was going to have to avoid mom's phone calls for awhile because she was burdened by the information. (Insert eye roll here)
I just called my mom to make sure she got the flowers so I could relay the info back to my Dad. Guess who she's on the other line with? Ugh, I hope she isn't ruining this. My Dad just wanted my mom to feel special.
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P.V.Hawkwind
by Awesome Sauce on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:22 AM
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She should kept her mouth shut. All he wanted to do was to uplift your mom since she is having a rough go of it.
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KitschyGirl
by Cupcake Maven on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:25 AM
Right? She makes it seem like we're asking her to conceal a murder. It will complicate things and ruin my moms experience if she knows who sent it. Ruining her happiness just because you didn't get your way is so fucking immature.

Quoting P.V.Hawkwind:

She should kept her mouth shut. All he wanted to do was to uplift your mom since she is having a rough go of it.
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AjCeCeMom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:26 AM

She seems a little dramatic to say the least.

nikki32230
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:28 AM
Your sis sucks! I think it was a very sweet idea!
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TarotMommy
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:28 AM
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Sounds like your sister is so full of herself she can't see past her own nose.
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kjfamily
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:31 AM
I'm waiting to hear about your tv experience! Do you have to keep it a secret or did I miss the post?
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celeciag
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:33 AM
What a drama queen. Does she make EVERYTHING about her?
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BEXi
by Ruby Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:35 AM

Theyre anonymous flowers. She's acting like her moms spouse cheated on yalls mom and she was the one to catch him in  the act. She sounds kinda dramatic?

Nikki286
by Nicoli on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:41 AM

aww that was nice of your dad and wrong of your sister  hope it helped brighten your moms day

laciD
by Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 11:43 AM
Very sweet of your dad and completely rude of your sister
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